Two Giving Trees…..
I am almost ashamed to admit it, but I sometimes have trouble remembering what gifts I received a year ago for Christmas. Does that happen to you too? It’s not that I am not happy with the gifts……I am frequently amazed at the creativity and thoughtfulness of the giver. But sometimes all I can handle is just trying to keep up with my 5 kids and my husband so many other things get pushed onto a back shelf inside my brain.
There have been extra special Christmas gifts that I have received that stick out in my mind. Not because they were particularly expensive but because they were long lasting. Each time I would use or look upon the gift, I would remember the thoughtfulness of the giver.
One of my favorite Christmas memories involve my dad and mother. Each year my dad would give my mother something special for Christmas. He would usually ask one of his daughters to wrap it for him and I can remember the happiness on his face when he would give my mother her gift.
After my father passed away a few years ago, my siblings and I started a new tradition – in addition to our individual gifts to our mother, we also joined together to give her a gift from all of us on behalf of my father, who is no longer here.
We have had a lot of fun thinking of ideas of what to give her each year. This year we decided to give her two Apricot trees. You see, my mother loves to can fruit. Double S Farms, where she lives, has apple, peach, plum, kumquat, lemon, grapefruit, almond and pecan trees.
This past summer, my mother taught me how to make peach and plum jam as well as applesauce. I am still using peach jam on my morning toast 🙂
As many different kinds of fruit trees that my mother has, she does not have any apricot trees. That was kind of sad really because apricots were among her favorite fruit. So our decision was really quite easy.
We bought her two apricot trees and tied big red bows on each one and placed them on the side of the house.
We placed the apricot trees in the same area that already had peach trees growing. Little Farmer and Littlest Farmer were happy to help 😉
Now it was time for her surprise…..I think she was very happy with her gift.
Many people find it surprising that we can grow many different kinds of fruit trees. Trees with low chill hour requirements do very well in our area. (Chill hours occur when temperatures below 45 degrees F. Fruit trees require a minimum number of chill hours to produce fruit.). We selected two different varieties of apricot trees – ‘Katy’ and ‘Gold Kist’.
Apricot trees are self-pollinating (which means that they doesn’t need pollen from another apricot tree to produce fruit), so we really only needed one, but since we planted two, that means more apricot jam in our future.
The apricot trees will be ready for harvesting in late May / early June.
When planting fruit trees, it is important not to dig the hole deeper then the depth of the root ball. What is a good thing to do is to dig the hole at least 3 times the width of the root ball, which helps the roots to grow out into the surrounding soil. January is the month to plant your bare-root fruit trees in the Arizona deserts.
No fertilizer should be added to newly planted trees for the first year. The reason is because fertilizer will trigger the growth of the upper part of the tree – you may be asking what is wrong with that?
Well, all trees need a good root system that can support the branches, leaves and fruit and that takes at least a year. So please don’t add fertilizer unless you live in an area with sandy soils, which may require the addition of phosphorus and potassium when planted.
My mother was very happy with her gift, which will continue giving year after year.
I can almost taste the apricot jam……but it will take a few years for the new trees to produce enough fruit 🙂
For information on fruit varieties for the desert southwest, click here.
Here is a link for general fruit tree growing information for Arizona.
Noelle Johnson, aka, 'AZ Plant Lady' is a author, horticulturist, and landscape consultant who helps people learn how to create, grow, and maintain beautiful desert gardens that thrive in a hot, dry climate. She does this through her consulting services, her online class Desert Gardening 101, and her monthly membership club, Through the Garden Gate. As she likes to tell desert-dwellers, "Gardening in the desert isn't hard, but it is different."
What a wonderful story Noelle. I think it is so sweet of your family to give a gift from your Father. Such a wonderful idea.She looks like she was very happy with the new apricot trees from that wonderful smile. That smile made the gift giving all the more a blessing. Have a wonderful week.
Aw, what a lovely story!
Chill hours. Am I right that our apples won't set much fruit since we don't get frost here? I'll just ask very quietly, because this year we have more apples than we have ever had! But still, just a handful per tree.
Thanks for sharing the beautiful story, it was heart warming.
Such a thoughtful thing to do of you siblings and you found the perfect present.
Annelie
Your family is always a joy to talk about, and you have a wonderful one. Your mother seem to be a very happy matriarch of such wonderful clan. But most of all i love to look at the Little farmer and the Littlest Farmer, hahaha, they are so cute and beautiful. I also love the way you call everyone in your family, to conceal their real names. They come out cute too! What happens when the twins go with you gardening too, will they be called The Littlest Farmer Twins No. 1 and No. 2? Hahaha
I can see the delight in your Mom's expression. She must have been overjoyed and that joy is contagious.
Thanks for the tips on the correct method to transplant fruit trees.
What thoughtful gifts you gave to your mom! I am always moved by the story you told about your family. You have such a tight-bound family, and full of love!
okay, I just LOVE the candid shot of your mom! You can truly tell that she loves her gifts. WTG!!
Great gift Noelle! I always enjoy your family posts! Lovely!
What a wonderful idea for your Mom's Christmas. It must have made her Christmas so special. Apricot jam…my favorite…Balisha
What a lovely tradition. Beautiful post.
I do enjoy seeing the pictures of the saguaro and all the desert plants. Reminds me of my visit to Tucson some years back. Love the desert thought it is way opposite of where I live here on the shores of Lake Michigan. Always have plenty of water here, and now in Winter, plenty of snow! You might enjoy some of the recent postings of the garden here. You can find it using google search engine; gardensatwaterseast.blogspot.com/ We live in different worlds but the same love of the Earth shows. Jack
I love this gift! Perfect! You can see it on her face.