Growing up, we had a lemon tree in our backyard in California. I loved to be able to go outside and just pick lemons whenever we needed them. As an adult, I must admit that of all the different kinds of citrus trees – lemon are my favorite. Our first home in Phoenix came with two mature citrus trees in the back garden….grapefruit and orange, but sadly no lemon trees. We did plant one, but moved a year later and so did not get to enjoy any lemons.
Cannot wait for fresh lemonade
We have lived in our current home for over 10 years and we have no fruit trees growing in the garden (I may be changing that soon). We have been blessed by the residents of Double S Farms (my mother, my sister and her family) who have many different types of fruit trees and they share their bountiful harvests with us. The best part is that they have a large lemon tree and I get to use all the lemons that I need.
Right now, the lemon tree is covered in green fruit that will soon ripen. Can you see the lemons?
For healthy citrus trees and delicious fruit, a regular fertilization program is needed. They need to be fertilized three times a year….Feb/Mar, May and Aug/Sept. You can use either a regular citrus fertilizer or you can go the organic route and use an organic citrus fertilizer.
If you have not already fertilized your citrus trees, now is the time. You can read more about citrus and their needs in my post from last September if you like.
Soon these green lemons will turn yellow and then it will be time to pick them…..
One of my favorite things to do with lemons is to juice them and freeze the juice for later use throughout the year. Right now, my frozen lemon juice is running pretty low. I cannot wait for new lemons and my kids cannot wait for fresh lemonade 🙂
I hope you all had a great holiday weekend.
I am getting ready to seed my vegetable garden today 🙂
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I mentioned earlier this week about our beautiful Palo Verde tree that fell victim to the high winds of a monsoon storm. As sad as I was for the loss of my tree, I began to realize that I would now have to choose a replacement. Now I don’t know about you, but I just love it when I get to buy a new tree or plant. My husband is not usually as excited as I am because he is usually the one digging the holes 😉
Faced with the wonderful dilemma of having to choosing what type of tree to plant, I have began to go through the list of candidates – listing their positives and sometimes the negatives. In my last post, we looked at 12 different trees and today I would like to finish the list of prospective tree choices.
Texas Mountain Laurel (Sophora secundiflora)
I think it is the purple flowers that show up in the springtime that make this one of my favorite small trees. The flowers are not only beautiful, but they perfume the air with the fragrance of grape bubblegum.
When not blooming, Texas Mountain Laurel makes an extremely attractive evergreen tree or large shrub, depending on how you prune (train) it. At maturity, it can reach heights of 15 – 25 ft. high and up to 15 ft. wide. I like how it grows in full sun as well as light shade. The fact that it is thornless is a bonus.
Most people I have spoken to are not generally fans of seedpods and try to stay away from trees that produce them. However, most do not mind the seedpods of the Texas Mountain Laurel, because they add an attractive element to the tree. The seedpods contain bright red seeds that are poisonous, but are extremely hard. As a result, experts say that the seeds would likely pass through the digestive tract, undigested.
*Caterpillars can become a problem during warm weather, but you can just ignore them and/or pick them off. If you see loose webbing on the leaves, that is a sign that it is infected by caterpillars. The damage caused from the caterpillars does not usually hurt the tree. It helps if you detect the eggs before they hatch and remove them. Since caterpillars usually infect the new growth, I just prune off the affected areas.
As much as I love this small tree, I will probably look for something that will grow a little taller.
Willow Acacia (Acacia salicina)
Another of my favorite imports from Australia, Willow Acacia offers beauty in narrower spaces. I planted over 100 of these trees in golf courses. Their relative low maintenance, lack of thorns, and graceful willow-like growth habit makes this tree an asset in many areas. I also love that fact that they are evergreen. You can see them growing in common areas, entry and patio gardens as well as golf courses.
Their mature size of approximately 40 ft high and 20 ft. wide make this a great selection to use in a narrow space such as a side yard.
In late summer and fall, cream colored, puffball flowers appear which have a pleasing, light fragrance.
I may have to seriously consider planting a Willow Acacia….
Ironwood (Olneya tesota)
A somewhat iconic desert tree is the Ironwood. Native to the southwestern deserts, this tree is characterized by gray-green foliage, and extremely hard wood. A slow growing tree, it can reach 30 ft. high and 25 ft. wide, although I have seen some specimens that are larger. Almost evergreen, it loses it’s leaves just before flowering in late winter, although severe drought can also cause it to lose it’s leaves.
This beautiful tree does best in full sun and should be kept away from close proximity to pedestrian areas as the thorns can be troublesome. In late winter, their flowers begin to appear. The trees appear covered in a lavender mist. The flowers are small but are incredibly breathtaking up close…. but you can easily miss them, so pay attention.
Ironwood trees are often found growing on golf courses in our area. Usually, the golf course was built around certain specimen trees that were already present. Ironwood trees do not fare very well over time when planted in grassy areas. I have seen my share of stately Ironwood trees decline over time on golf courses until they had to be removed.
I do love this tree, but would like to keep away from having thorny trees in my back garden where my children play and would also like a tree that is somewhat faster growing. **I am normally a proponent of purchasing trees in smaller containers such as a 15- gallon tree instead of a 24″ box tree because once in the ground, the 15-gallon tree will rapidly catch up in size to the planted 24″ box tree. BUT when shopping for a tree that is known to be a slow-grower, then I do recommend buying the largest size you can afford.
Evergreen Elm (Ulmus parvifolia)
Contrary to the common name, Evergreen Elm, this beautiful shade tree is NOT evergreen. *I would really love to talk to the people who come up with these common names 😉 If you want a large shade tree, then this is a great selection. Bright, light green leaves, smooth bark that chips off in the shape of puzzle pieces, thornless…..there is little not to love. It does drop it’s leaves in winter and they do not change into pretty autumn colors before falling off.
When deciding where to plant, make sure to allow plenty of room for the roots of this 35 ft. x 35 ft. tree. The dense shade it produces is a welcome respite from a hot, summer day. But the shade makes it difficult for summer grass to grow underneath as well as many plants.
Personally, I would like to try to find an evergreen tree for my garden that does not produce dense shade because I do like to plant underneath my trees.
Jacaranda(Jacaranda mimosifilia)
Growing up in Southern California, Jacaranda trees are quite familiar to me. I love their tropical foliage and the flowers are just beautiful. Many transplanted Californians now make their home in Arizona and as a result, like to plant many plants that remind them of home.
Jacaranda trees are actually native to Brazil, but are grown in tropical and semi-tropical regions around the world. In their native, tropical climate, they can exceed heights of 50 ft. x 30 ft. wide. In our semi-tropical, arid climate, they do not grow quite as large as those grown in areas with warmer winters, such as California.
The flowers are just lovely and when they fall, they create a carpet of purple underneath the tree….so don’t rush to rake up the fallen flowers.
In areas with cooler winters, they do lose their leaves. They can also be damaged by hard frosts which sometimes occur in our area, so I would recommend planting in an area that receives some protection from frost.
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My parents had a Jacaranda tree in their San Pedro, CA garden and so did my father-in-law in his Scottsdale, AZ garden. As a result, I was able to enjoy their beauty up close. But, I would rather plant a tree that is more tolerant of the occasional hard frosts that my zone 8b garden receives.
Shoestring Acacia (Acacia stenophylla)
Another import from Australia, Shoestring Acacia makes a wonderful addition to the residential landscape. They are also found growing in parking lots, common areas and golf courses.
This is also a great tree for narrow areas. Evergreen, thornless and long leaves that remind you of shoestrings, hence the common name. At maturity, they can reach heights of 30 ft. high while only reaching 20 ft. wide.
Even if you aren’t a fan of seedpods, these pods look very cool, I think….
These seedpods make great Christmas decorations for the tree….they look like beads strung together. One Christmas, I had a tree solely covered with seedpods from different trees. My mother makes fantastic wreaths out of seedpods. I will probably do a seedpod post soon.
There really nothing negative about Shoestring Acacias, except that they can look somewhat scrawny when they are young. I remember planting them in groups of three around golf courses when the superintendent (my boss) asked me if they would always look so scrawny. I promised him that in 2 years, he would be thanking me for planting them….and he did 😉 Just be patient and you will be rewarded.
Shoestring Acacia is a tree that I may need to consider my garden.
Mesquite (Prosopis species)
Besides Palo Verde trees, Mesquites are probably the second most iconic tree of the desert southwest. You may be surprised to find out that the Mesquite trees found in most landscapes are not the same ones found growing out in the desert, but rather imports from South America.
Mesquite trees are known for growing quickly and providing filtered shade. There are many good reasons to include one in your garden as well as some negatives to be mindful of. The most important consideration for most homeowners is whether the Mesquite they have chosen is a thornless species or not.
First the positives…..beautiful shade tree, moderate to fast growing, thornless varieties available, edible seedpods, flowers attract bees which serve to pollinate other areas of the garden.
Now the negatives…..susceptible to damage from the wind, needs to be staked longer then some other types of trees, thorns (depending on variety), seedpod litter, invasive roots, susceptible to mistletoe infestation, pruning is often required more than once a year.
Here is a list of the most popular Mesquite species and their characteristics:
Argentine Mesquite (Prosopis alba)
20 – 40 ft. high and wide
Thorns
Mostly evergreen
Native to South America
Chilean Mesquite (Prosopis chilensis)
30 ft. high and wide
Some types are thornless
Semi-deciduous (Loses most leaves in winter)
Native to South America
Honey Mesquite (Prosopis glandulosa)
15 – 30 ft. high / 20 – 40 ft. wide
Thorns
Deciduous (loses leaves in winter)
Native to southwestern North America
Velvet Mesquite (Prosopis velutina)
30 ft. high and wide
Thorns
Semi-evergreen
Native to southwestern North America
I love the beauty of Mesquite trees and have grown many both professionally and in my own garden at one time. But for me personally, the maintenance that they require is more than I want to do in my own garden.
Brazilian Pepper Tree (Schinus teribinthifolius)
This attractive tree has a multitude of uses in the landscape. Brazilian Pepper trees can be found in parks, golf courses, along roadside plantings and residential landscapes. It’s mature size of 15 – 30 ft. high and wide makes it suitable to be used as a patio tree.
In winter, it is evergreen and the female trees produce pretty red clusters of small berries. The fact that it is also thornless makes it a welcome addition to the garden.
Although it is somewhat invasive in humid climates, that is not a problem in arid regions.
I’m not sure about this one for my garden….maybe?
Leatherleaf Acacia (Acacia craspedocarpa)
This small tree can create great contrast in the landscape with it’s gray-green leaves. I find it looks most attractive when planted in groups of 3 or 5, although it would make a great patio tree if planted alone.
Native to Australia, it’s relative small size of 10 – 15 ft. high and wide make it perfect for small areas.
Evergreen, thornless, extremely low-maintenance and interestingly shaped leaves make this tree an asset in the landscape. The leaves are thick and somewhat leathery in texture, hence it’s common name.
I have not personally grown this tree, but would not hesitate too. But in this case, I am looking for a larger tree.
Weeping Acacia (Acacia pendula)
I love the botanical name for this Australian native as it so aptly describes the pendulous branches. I really have a thing for trees that have a weeping type of growth. I’m not sure why.
This tree grows up to 40 ft. high and 25 ft. wide. The light gray-green color also contrasts nicely with darker green foliage in the landscape. The rate of growth is rather slow, so I think I will not add this one to my list.
Well, I wish that I could say that I know exactly what type of tree I am going to plant, but I am honestly not sure. I wrote these posts to help myself as well as those who may be considering some of these trees as well in order to help them with their choice.
I will probably hold off until October or November to make my final decision as they are the best months for planting in our area.
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Right now, my vegetable garden is calling to me to come out and plant some seeds.
I am faced with a wonderful dilemma of selecting a desert tree…
My last post dealt with the loss of one of our beautiful ‘Desert Museum’ palo verde trees. So now we are faced with the question of which type of tree should we choose to replace the one that I lost? We worked hard the past couple of days to remove the fallen tree and now have a bare space to fill.
I have lived in my home (and garden) for over ten years. As our house was being built, we designed the surrounding garden. I enjoyed deciding which trees I would choose to grace our desert garden with not only beauty but shade in the summer months. I honestly do not understand people who don’t plant trees in the garden – especially in desert climates. They not only provide wonderful shade in the summer months but also add a lot of value to your property.
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Considering Options for Selecting a Desert Tree
I loved my palo verde tree that fell…..I have two others just like it, including the one pictured above. There is much to like about these trees beside the beautiful green trunks – they are fast growing, thornless, evergreen and yellow flowers in the spring. The only drawbacks are that there is litter from the fallen flowers in spring, which means that it should not be planted by a pool. The fallen flowers do not bother me at all – I rather enjoy the carpet of yellow.
But, even with all of the wonderful attributes of this tree, I have decided to select another type of tree as it’s the replacement. Why may you ask? Well, because they grow quickly, I do have to prune them quite a bit. I do not mind pruning, but pruning three of these trees each year was becoming much more of a chore.
Another reason is that in addition to being a horticulturist, I am also a certified arborist and I do love trees and have grown many different kinds in the landscapes that I managed. Right now, I have 14 trees (8 different types) growing in my front, back and side gardens. I would enjoy adding another kind of tree to my plant palette.
So, here comes the fun part…which one to choose?
Selecting a Desert Tree Variety:
Desert Fern (Lysiloma thornberi)
Desert Fern (Lysiloma thornberi, Lysiloma watsonii var. thornberi, Lysiloma microphylla var. thornberi)
One of my favorite things about the desert fern is the beautiful, fern-like leaves – hence its common name.
Another plus is that is a native, desert tree and is thornless. The leaves turn a slight maroon color in the winter in our zone 8b climate. In colder winters the leaves may drop altogether. Although what I would call a medium sized tree, it typically grows from 15 – 45 feet high and wide.
One drawback is that it does produce brown seed pods, which some people do not like, but I have no problem with them at all.
*I do have a desert fern tree already, and although another one would look great in my newly bare area, I think I will try to choose a different type of tree.
Sweet Acacia (Acacia farnesiana, Acacia smallii)
Sweet Acacia(Acacia farnesiana, Acacia smallii)
In the springtime, air is perfumed with the fragrance of the bright yellow puffball flowers of the sweet acacia. When not in flower, the tiny, dark green leaves are easier to see.
Although found in other areas of the United States, it is also native to the southwest. The mature size is approximately 25 feet high and wide. In areas with mild winters, the leaves will remain on the tree. Dark brown seedpods are produced once flowering has finished.
Some drawbacks to consider are the thorns having to be careful when pruning is necessary (requiring gloves and long sleeves). Now, I am more of a “Do as I say” person rather than a “Do as I do” person. I always wear gloves when I prune, but I rarely wear long sleeves in the summer months. As a result, I have some small scratch scars on my forearms from pruning sweet acacia in the past.
Although I love the beauty, size and the springtime fragrance of this tree, I don’t think I want to accrue any more scars on my arms 😉
Southern Live Oak (Quercus virginiana)
Southern Live Oak (Quercus virginiana)
Believe it or not, oak trees do very well in our desert climate. Southern live oak, cork oak, and holly oak are all found in the suburban landscape. Southern live oak is the most prevalent, however.
There is little not to love about these trees – they are thornless, have evergreen foliage, are tolerant of full and reflected sun making this tree very low-maintenance. In non-desert climates, they can reach heights of up to 40 – 60 ft., but will not grow that large in the desert. In the landscape areas that I managed, they were a favorite because there was so little maintenance required.
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I may be crazy, but this tree seems a little boring to me. Not sure exactly what it is. I spent my teenage years growing up in the town of Thousand Oaks, California and the hillsides are dotted with large, specimen oak trees. The oak trees that I see growing in our area do not resemble the ones from my childhood, so maybe that is the reason that I do not have any in my garden. But, I would wholeheartedly recommend this tree to anyone who wants a lovely, low-maintenance tree.
Bottle Tree (Brachychiton populneus)
Bottle Tree (Brachychiton populneus)
Some of you may be surprised to know that many of our trees and shrubs are grown in our arid climate are native to Australia. The bottle tree is one of them. First of all, I love the shape of the leaves and how the sun reflects off of them in a gentle breeze. I also like the slightly pendulous way that the branches hang down. Evergreen in areas with mild winters and a smooth trunk make it an asset in the garden. Its mature size of 30 – 45 feet high and 30 feet wide, makes it suitable for narrower spaces.
As a child, growing up in Los Angeles, we had one in our front garden. My sister and I used to pretend that the little flowers were ‘fairy caps’ and the flowers were soon followed by large, brown seedpods.
The pods themselves are quite cool looking, and my mother would use them in making wreaths out of seedpods. But what I most remember about the seedpods is getting some of the ‘fuzz’ from the inside stuck on my bare feet, and it hurt. I think that is maybe why I do not have this tree in my garden. But, many people I know who have a bottle tree love them.
**One note of caution, this tree is quite susceptible to Texas (Cotton) root rot (a fungal disease that infects the roots). So if you know of cases of Texas root rot in your neighborhood, I would advise growing another type of tree.
Palo Blanco (Acacia willardiana)
Palo Blanco (Acacia willardiana)
If you have not already noticed already, I am somewhat biased about certain types of trees. This one is one of my favorite smaller trees. The word ‘palo blanco; means “white stick” in Spanish and refers to the white trunk of this tree – considered to be one of its most attractive assets.
The bark peels off in papery sheets. Palo blanco trees look great when planted near each other in groups of 3 or 5 where their distinctive tree trunks can be shown off.
I also like the bright green foliage of the trees and their tiny leaflets. In winter, the leaves do fall from the desert native, but they are so small and do not create much litter.
When mature, it reaches a height of 15 – 20 feet and spreads to 10 feet wide which makes it suitable for a patio tree or other small area. Maintenance is minimal, only requiring a small amount of pruning.
Tiny flowers grace the tree in spring, followed by decorative seed pods.
I like these trees so much that I have three of them. They are growing against my west-facing garden wall and do great in the reflected sun. But, I will probably choose something else for my bare area since I would like a tree that is a little larger for that area.
Indian Rosewood / Sissoo (Dalbergia sissoo)
Indian Rosewood / Sissoo (Dalbergia sissoo)
It’s hard to beat the sissoo tree for fast growth and shade. However, they ARE NOT recommended for average size residential landscapes. The photo of the tree above was taken four years after it was planted from a 15-gallon container and it rapidly grew even larger – soon, it had to be removed due to its invasive roots. This tree made its debut in the Phoenix area about 15 years ago and rapidly became quite popular for its lush green beauty.
As sissoo trees have been grown in the southwest landscape for several years, problems have begun to crop up. They have invasive root systems that cause problems with sidewalks, patio decks, pools, and block walls. Also, their mature size is so big that they dwarf the landscapes they have been planted in. Shallow watering often causes the roots to grow along the surface.
Sissoo trees are best used in large outdoor areas such as parks.
Olive (Olea europaea)
Olive (Olea europaea)
As an option, olive trees work well. Most are multi-trunk with beautiful olive green leaves. They are evergreen and thornless. Regular fruiting olives are no longer sold in many cities due to their highly allergenic pollen. Thankfully, there is a non-fruiting cultivar called ‘Swan Hill Olives’® which is available.
Reaching a mature size of 20 – 30 feet high and wide, olive trees make excellent shade trees and are slow-growing. Some olive trees have fallen prey to some creative pruning (see photo below).
Definitely memorable, but not quite my taste. I would like a tree that will not take too long to grow, so let’s press on to other trees.
An excellent choice is Texas ebony. Particularly for those who like a dense, dark green canopy of leaves. Native to both Texas and Mexico, this tree does very well in the Arizona desert. Everything about this tree is dark – the green leaves the dark brown trunk.
This evergreen tree, has thorns and large brown seedpods. Texas ebony grows slowly to about 15 – 30 feet high and 15 – 20 feet wide.
This is a favorite tree with my clients, but again, I am looking for a tree that grows more quickly.
Chinese Pistache (Pistacia chinensis)
Chinese Pistache (Pistacia chinensis)
An excellent tree for those who like lush, green trees that lose their leaves in winter. Chinese pistache grows to 25 – 25 feet high and wide and has some welcome surprises. It is a deciduous tree known for its stunning fall foliage. Native to China, this tree has become popular in various regions due to its vibrant red, orange, and yellow leaves during autumn. Its small, round fruits are enjoyed by birds.
Chinese Pistache trees are also valued for their drought tolerance and adaptability to different soil types, making them a favored choice for landscaping and urban environments.
It is one of the few trees in our area that produces a rich fall color. Female trees produce clusters of little berries in the fall.
I like this tree, but I want to see more trees before I decide…..
Cascalote (Caesalpinia cacalaco)
Cascalote (Caesalpinia cacalaco)
Another tree that also provides beautiful color in fall and winter is the cascalote. Plumes of yellow flowers start to appear in November and stay through December. At maturity, they reach approximately 15 feet tall and wide.
I love the clusters of small round leaves that are evergreen.
Now I am not a fan of thorns, but the thorns on this tree are almost pretty. You need to plant this tree away from pedestrian areas due to the thorns. You can remove the thorns if you like, which is what I have done in the past. However, there is now a thornless variety, called ‘Smoothie.’
The first flowers of the season begin to open. I bought my first one on a field trip with my Plant Identification college class to the Boyce Thompson Arboretum. I brought it home and planted it in a container because we were renting a house at the time, waiting for our new home to be built. Later, I planted it in our front garden, and I look forward to the beautiful yellow flowers in the fall.
Aleppo Pine (Pinus halepensis)
Aleppo Pine (Pinus halepensis)
Believe it or not, some pine trees also do well in the desert. I love the sound of the wind as it blows through pine trees. Aleppo, Canary Island (Pinus canariensis) and mondel pines (Pinus eldarica) are all found in suburban areas of the lower desert areas of the southwest.
Depending on the species, they grow anywhere from 30 – 60 feet tall and most should not be planted in a residential landscape unless there is ample room for growth. They can suffer from soils and water with high amounts of salts.
Pine trees offer heavy shade that will prevent most grasses from growing underneath. Pine needles litter the ground as well. But did you know that pine needles make an excellent mulch? As they break down, they help to acidify our alkaline soils. And so, if you have a neighbor with pine trees, offer to rake some pine needles up to put in your garden. Your neighbor will be so happy 🙂
I am pretty sure that I will not plant a pine tree because I have memories of many hours spent nursing along many pine trees growing on golf courses that were irrigated with reclaimed water. Most of the pine trees did not do well with the high level of salts in the effluent water.
Desert Willow (Chilopsis linearis)
Desert Willow (Chilopsis linearis)
A summer favorite is the desert willow tree. Beautiful, willow-shaped leaves and flowers brighten up the summer garden. It can grow anywhere from 8 – 30 feet high and wide. Available in both single and multi-trunk, I prefer the beauty of the multi-trunk shape.
You will find this tree growing in parks, roadside plantings as well as in residential landscapes. Its small-medium size makes it suitable for smaller areas. It does lose its leaves in winter and forms narrow seed capsules. While not the prettiest tree in winter, the flowers produced spring through fall make it more than worth it and there are new (almost seedless) varieties such as ‘Bubba’ and ‘Timeless Beauty’ that produce little to no seedpods.
That is why I have four currently growing in my garden. They are simply lovely.
I would still like to find something different, that I do not currently have growing in my garden.
I need to continue looking at possible tree choices. (You can check out my second post of possible tree selections, here 🙂
P.S. Do you have more questions about choosing a tree for your landscape? I share my experience as a horticulturist and certified arborist and profile my top 20 along with all of their characteristics in my mini-course “How to Select the Right Tree for Your Desert Garden”.
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Isn’t it interesting how the best laid plans go awry? I had great plans for the beginning of this week. I was getting ready to build my flower garden. I have had visions of a garden filled with both annual and perennial flowers suitable for cutting for bouquets.
My garden however, had other plans……
Yesterday evening, I noticed that one of my ‘Desert Museum’ Palo Verde trees was leaning against the fence that blocks off the side yard. I call this area a ‘yard’ and not a ‘garden’ because it is where our dog run is located. My husband and I rushed out to see what had happened and our tree had fallen part way over. The night before, had brought a monsoon storm to our neighborhood and the high winds brought the tree down. It was only held up by the fence.
I was honestly surprised that this tree had fallen. I loved this tree…..it’s beautiful yellow flowers blooming throughout the spring, it’s bright green trunk and branches and the welcome shade it brought to my desert garden.
Flower Garden
You can see the tree in the background. I normally do not take pictures of our side yard because besides the two Palo Verde trees, there is not much to see besides the dogs….
This is Seiko (pronounced ‘Psycho’) and he is telling me that he is hungry.
We did not name him…..he came with the name 😉
The chicken wire along the bottom of the fence is to keep our little dog, Tobey, from coming in to play with Seiko.
I posted a picture of this tree earlier this year as the sun was setting. I loved how the sun set off the beauty of the yellow blossoms.
Oftentimes, when a tree has fallen part way and the roots are still in the ground, I am often called to a client’s home to ascertain if their tree can be saved by pulling upright and re-staking it. This can be a tricky to determine sometimes. If the roots are girdled (growing around in circles) then I usually do recommend removing the tree because the roots aren’t growing outwards which help to anchor the tree.
If the tree went over because of not being pruned correctly or watered incorrectly, then it might be saved if these things are done properly. I do remind people to keep in mind if they do stake their tree back up, that there is an excellent chance that it will fall again, which can be a hazard. But, if they are very attached to their tree and want to give it another chance, then by all means I tell them to go for it.
Sadly, it turns out that our tree had girdled roots and had to come out. It is difficult to diagnose girdled roots ahead of time because it usually occurs at the nursery. Either by being planted incorrectly, or by being in it’s container for too long. When I would purchase trees for the landscapes I managed, the nurseries would often contact me to let me know they were having a great sale on their container trees. The usual reason was that their trees had been in the containers for quite a while and instead of transplanting them to larger containers, they put them on sale. As a result, I made it a rule to never buy a tree on sale – I did not want to take a chance that they were in their container/box too long and the roots were beginning to grow around the root ball.
My initial plan for this morning had been to go to our local big box store and purchase the supplies for my new flower garden. But, instead I spent my morning cutting down our tree with my husband and daughter, Rachele. Why didn’t we hire someone to remove it for us you may ask? Well, it is hard for me to spend around $400 to remove a tree when I was used to removing fallen trees with my crew years ago. I just can’t see paying someone to do something that I had been trained to do myself. But I think the more important motivation is that $400 is a lot of money to spend when we can do it ourselves.
You know what happens when you start pruning one tree in your garden? You find more trees that need a little pruning here and there. And so I also did some pruning on my remaining Palo Verde trees. *I really like electric chainsaws….they are much lighter and quieter then the gas powered models.
I really enjoy pruning both trees and shrubs. What I don’t like is having to clean up afterward. My kids and I usually have a great system where I do the pruning and they help clean up the branches. But today, three of my kids were in school, which left me and my husband to do the cleaning up 😉
It is usually at this point that I start questioning the wisdom of doing it ourselves instead of hiring someone else to do it instead 😉
As I walked through the cut branches, I noticed some of the few remaining yellow flowers beginning to wilt….
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I am what many people would call a “planner”. I absolutely love to plan things ahead of time…..trips, schedules, and my garden. As the month of August begins to wane, it is time to start planning my fall vegetable garden.
As a child, I would enjoy sitting down with my dad’s newest Burpee catalog, looking at the newest vegetable and flower seed offerings. Now times have changed and instead of looking through a paper catalog, I was looking at a ‘virtual’ online catalog of numerous seed company sites. One that I especially like is Botanical Interests. They offer high-quality flower and vegetable seed at reasonable prices. Even if you do not purchase seeds from them, they offer extremely helpful growing tips for each type of seed that they sell. I have seen them for sale at some local nurseries and they are also available online as well.
Okay, back to my planning. I have cleaned out much of my vegetable garden, which leaves a tomato plant (which weathered the summer heat very well under shade cloth), a pumpkin plant that is growing mostly outside of the garden and a few basil plants. The landscape designer in me loves nothing better than a mostly blank palette 🙂 Tuesday evening, found me at Double S Farms having our weekly dinner with family and my mother (Pastor Farmer) brought out a wooden chest full of seeds. She had more than she needed and offered to let me have some. *I am often blessed by the generosity of the residents (my mother, sister, and her family) of Double S Farms.
Needless to say, I was in heaven. The different seeds were stored in tiny plastic bags and then placed inside of little Gerber baby food containers. I opened the broccoli container and was so happy to find 4 different types of varieties to choose from.
I filled up my share of Ziploc bags with all different types of seeds. Have you heard the phrase “My eyes were bigger than my stomach?” Well, in this case, I believe that my eyes were bigger than my vegetable garden. I know that I do not have room to grow everything that I would like, but I have some definite favorites that I will plant.
The time to plant many vegetables and flowers begins in September in the lower deserts and I hope to find room to plant the following…..
Broccoli
Garlic
Scallions
Carrots
Lettuce
I am not sure that I have room for the following, but they can also be planted in September in our area:
Beets
Cabbage
Cauliflower
Celery
Eggplant
Peas
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Radishes
I have also decided to plant some companion plants to help attract beneficial insects and deter damaging insects to my vegetable garden.
Bachelor’s Button / Cornflower (Centaurea cyanus)
I plan on planting Bachelor’s Button, Nasturtiums and Marigolds. Each of these flowers can be directly sown by seed.
Bachelor’s Button can be planted September through November from seed and attracts many different pollinators to my garden.
Nasturtium is a powerhouse in the vegetable garden. They repel damaging insects such as aphids, whiteflies as well as some beetles. Another benefit is that insects that eat scale are also attracted by nasturtiums. *A lesser-known benefit is that both the flowers and leaves of nasturtium are edible. The leaves taste great with mixed salad greens and the flowers make a pretty garnish.
Marigolds are well known for their ability to repel damaging insects in the garden such as aphids, whiteflies, crickets and grasshoppers. French Marigolds (Tagetes patula), also help to repel nematodes in the soil. The bright flowers of all Marigolds attract butterflies and other pollinators.
Here are a few other great companion plants you may consider growing in and around your vegetable garden….
Thyme (attracts beneficial insects while repelling damaging insects)
I plan on preparing the soil in my raised vegetable garden by adding a mixture of compost and aged steer manure. *If you are like me and do not compost (I really should), or have cows in your backyard (I really don’t want any), you can buy both at your local big box store or local nursery. I apply compost and manure twice a year – in in late summer and late winter.
Other types of manure that are recommended for vegetable gardens are chicken and horse. Just make sure that they are aged and not fresh – fresh manure will burn your plants.
Nothing says “I love you” quite like a man who shovels manure for his wife’s vegetable garden.
I am so blessed 🙂
**Many professional and amateur vegetable gardeners have their own special garden soil recipe and they all have great results using different ratios and types of compost, manure and other amendments. What this really means to the backyard gardener is that there is no one ‘right’ recipe. Rather, there are many. The one overriding ingredient is compost. Even if compost is all you use for your garden soil, you will grow great vegetables.
I tend to go organic when I work in my vegetable garden in terms of fertilizer, but I have been known to apply a slow-release synthetic fertilizer in the past. If you decide to use a slow-release synthetic fertilizer, the labeling will tell you how long the fertilizer should last once applied. However, in our warm climate, it will not last that long….cut the length of time in half to determine how long it will really last.
Big box stores are now carrying a wide variety of organic fertilizers. I saw an organic fertilizer blend there just the other day that combined both bone meal, blood meal, micro-organisms as well as myccorhizae, which would work just great in my garden.*Mycorrhizae is a fungus that forms an extremely beneficial symbiotic relationship with plants via their roots.
And so, this weekend will find me adding my semi-annual application of compost/manure and organic fertilizer to my vegetable garden and allowing it to rest for a week or so before planting my seeds, which will actually help the soil.
I can almost taste my fresh grown vegetables…..
For more information about vegetable gardening including what and when to plant, you can check out this link.
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While we are in the midst of the dog days of August, it is easy to get discouraged when I look out into my garden. Now, that doesn’t mean that my garden looks bad….actually just the opposite. Many of my plants are in full bloom with lush, green growth. It is the lush, green growth that discourages me because my plants are calling to me to come outside and prune them.
Well, what is wrong with that? Well, it is still rather hot outside and I am so much more comfortable indoors with my best summer friend – my air conditioner. But, I promise I will soon venture outdoors again.
Meanwhile, there are many things this August that bring me joy….
Although this photo is rather blurry, it shows my son, Kai, running again – chasing his cousin. Earlier this summer, he was unable to walk as he recuperated from hip surgery. He is almost back to normal, which is wonderful especially since he loves to run.
Farm fresh eggs from my sister’s wonderful hens at Double S Farms.
My daughter, Gracie, picking out sunflower seeds to roast.
Sitting in the garden at Double S Farms, watching a tumbleweed roll by as the temperatures cool down as a monsoon storm approaches.
Toads that venture out when the rain arrives.
Deciding what to plant this fall in our vegetable garden.
The first day of school for Gracie, Ruthie and Kai.
Teaching a beginner’s vegetable gardening class this past weekend.
Now the most important joy of August, is the celebrating of new life.
Some of you may be familiar with my sisters whose gardens I sometimes feature. Well, I also have a brother.
Me, Daisy Mom of ‘The Refuge’, Chicken Farmer & Pastor Farmer of ‘Double S Farms’.
This past Saturday, we all gathered together to celebrate the coming birth of my brother and his wife’s twin boys.
The babies are due in October, but may make their appearance in September.
Two little baby birds nestled in toasted coconut on top of white chocolate cream cheese frosting……I love baking.
It was a special day with family and friends. Many people had created beautiful handmade gifts for the babies. I can hardly wait for them to arrive.
I am grateful for the joys that August has brought, but I am looking forward to what the fall is bringing….
….a trip to the east coast,
planting my vegetable garden,
two speaking engagements,
and most importantly….
being able to hold my two baby nephews 🙂
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It is not too late to create your own bouquet for this month’s MGB.
I would love to see what flowers are growing in your garden.
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Hello Everyone…..I hope you are all enjoying your summer so far. My August has been quite busy and filled with kids back in school, preparing to teach a vegetable gardening class, planning my fall vegetable garden, a baby shower (more about that later), knitting class, baking and writing for a magazine.
But, I did venture out into the garden to create my Monthly Garden Bouquet and this is what I came up with….
My ‘Rio Bravo’ Sage is in full bloom and I love the light fragrance of the lavender flowers. I decided to add a cluster of Gold Lantana flowers since they have been blooming in my entryway for the past 6 months. I love their bright colors.
I must admit that I sometimes overlook my Lantana. They do so well and are almost always blooming. They require no fertilizer or special attention except for twice annual pruning. I think gardeners tend to pay more attention to the plants that take more care, and ignore those that work hard and look beautiful without much effort, don’t you?
Before I went out into the garden to create my bouquet, I searched for a suitable vase or container to place it in. I have used the same containers more then once for previous MGB posts and was determined to find another one. It was then I remembered a special vase that I bought on a visit to Ireland over 9 years ago.
My vase pictures a farm cat and her kitten. It is from the ‘Landscape’ collection from Nicholas Mosse Irish Pottery. I have other pieces of the ‘Landscape’ collection and they are beautiful, painted with farm animals, flowers, and much more.
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If you would like to participate in August’s Monthly Garden Bouquet (and I hope you do), here are the guidelines.
1. MGB begins on the 21st of each month and runs until the end of each month. Bouquets can be submitted during this time (or even later 🙂
2. Create your own garden bouquet as fancy or simple as you like.
3. I would appreciate it if you would provide a link back to my post inside of your MGB post, but it is not required 🙂
4. Add your link to Mr. Linky below and that’s it!
I cannot wait to see what bouquets you create from your August gardens.
Have a great week!
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It is hard to believe that it has now been 7 years since Gracie walked into our lives. I cannot imagine life without her.
Now for the most part, this is a blog about my adventures living and gardening in the desert southwest, but I occasionally share about my family. I have been sharing Gracie’s story and have been so appreciative of your wonderful responses. You can read the previous entries by following this link.
Okay, back to the story where we left it. We were waiting patiently (impatiently) to get through immigration at the airport. I kept thinking of all the family that had gathered just outside waiting to meet Gracie for the first time. I was also dying to see my two oldest daughters….I had missed them terribly. Finally, the immigration officer stamped Gracie’s paperwork and she was now officially an American citizen. And so, we started to make our way out to the arrivals corridor to meet our family.
*The following photos are not the best quality, but I think they capture the emotions we experienced that special day….
My adventures living
My family, who resided in the Los Angeles area were all there along with my in-laws who had made the trip to LA from Phoenix. It was so wonderful to see everyone so excited to meet Gracie.
My adventures living
I couldn’t wait to hug my daughters and Gracie was definitely interested in her new sisters.
My adventures living
It was so great to see my mom (now Pastor Farmer of Double S Farms) and introduce her to Gracie.
She brought red, white & blue balloons to welcome Gracie to the United States.
We spent some time with family at my parent’s house, but we were soon ready to go to a hotel and sleep. Gracie spent some time at the hotel getting acquainted with her new sisters.
The next day we returned to my parent’s home to enjoy a baby shower for Gracie. I come from a close knit extended family and so family from all over Southern California and Arizona made the drive to the party. Great aunts & uncles, 1st & 2nd cousins, grandparents, her great-grandmother…it was a full house 🙂 Everyone was so eager to welcome Gracie into the family.
I could hardly wait for people to arrive to the shower and meet Gracie…
Gracie found the ribbon and Cheerios much more interesting then the gifts she received.
Picking up Cheerios continued to be challenging for her.
It was such a wonderful day and Gracie was embraced by the entire family. Later, she took a walk outside with her dad in her new dress and hat.
My adventures living
After a few days in Los Angeles, we loaded up our minivan and left for home. Once we returned home, and got Gracie settled in, we took her to the pediatrician who pronounced her healthy.
Gracie made herself at home…..
Watching ‘Barney’ for the first time….
Learning how to feed herself.
Soon we met with her orthopedist who would correct her clubfoot.
Normally, clubfeet are corrected right after birth, but since Gracie was almost 2 years old, her case was unusual. For the next 10 weeks, Gracie had a new cast put on her foot/leg. Each time the doctor would adjust the cast slightly in order to straighten her foot.
Gracie adjusted to her cast very well and did not let it slow her down. Meanwhile, she was experiencing the joys of belonging to a family.
Supergirl
Soon, it was time for the 10th cast to come off and although her foot was now straight, she needed surgery on her achilles tendon to fully repair her club foot. Unfortunately, her surgery was scheduled on her birthday. So, we had a fun-filled birthday celebration a few days ahead of time.
My adventures living
You can tell her hair is starting to grow out a little.
Her first birthday present….ever.
All to soon, came her surgery day….
My adventures living
The surgery went very well and we were so thankful. The nurse came into the surgery waiting room to get us and kept looking for an Asian couple. She finally called out our names and we could see that she was a little surprised to see that we weren’t Asian at all 😉
Even though the surgery was a success, Gracie still had to wear a cast for another month.
Now it was time to work on celebrating her first Christmas. It had been years since I had taken my older daughters to Santa, but we had to start up our Santa tradition with Gracie. Now, Gracie’s hair was starting to grow longer, but despite how often I dressed her in pink, some people would compliment me on my cute son.
I did my best to ignore this, thinking that eventually she would have enough hair that people wouldn’t mistake her for a boy. Well, this Santa photo was the breaking point for me….
Once the photo had been taken, Santa’s elf handed me the photo and said, “Here is the photo of your son.” That was it….I was tired of people mistaking her for a boy so we walked to the earring store a few feet away and got her ears pierced.
As well as Gracie was fitting into our family, there were still signs of her earlier life spent in an orphanage. She did have some delayed development, which is not unusual in children raised in orphanages in China and we had been prepared for that. She was catching up and had periods of accelerated learning as she was catching up to where she should be for her age.
One thing that she did and still does each night, is rock herself side to side in bed as she falls asleep. She would do this in the orphanage to comfort herself because there was probably a number of times that there was not an available person to rock her or provide comfort. As a result, she would have a large tangled mass of hair when she would wake up, so we started putting her hair in ponytails before bed, which solved the problem.
First Easter and tangled hair.
Gracie’s foot was doing very well, but for the months that followed, she had to wear special shoes fastened onto a bar at night. We called them “Night, Night Shoes”. At first, she hated them….I would have too.
The shoes helped to keep her repaired clubfoot pointed outwards. Gracie adapted pretty quickly and later did not complain when we had to put them on her.
During the day, she would have to wear a plastic brace on her lower leg.
Helping her dad in the garden. You can see the brace on her right leg.
Thankfully, she no longer has to wear a brace or special shoes any longer.
When Gracie was three years old, another major change occurred in our family…..
We went back to China in order to adopt a little boy, Kai. You can read about Kai’s story here if you like. Gracie accepted her brother right away and since they were only 6 months apart, they played together all the time.
While we were in China during this time, we arranged a visit to Gracie’s orphanage. We wanted to see where she had spent almost two years of her life. The trip took 2 1/2 hours by car and when we arrived, we were warmly greeted by the orphanage director and staff.
Here we are posing with some of the nannies, the director and the co-director.
One of the nannies is holding our new son, Kai.
At the orphanage, we were treated as honored guests and given a tour. They were thrilled to see Gracie and see how her club foot had been repaired. Gracie was happy to be there and let the orphanage director carry her all over…something she did not normally let strangers do. So, maybe she still had some faint memories of where she came from. One of the nannies picked up our newly adopted son, Kai and carried him around as well.
As nice as all the staff was, I cannot say the same of the orphanage itself. The orphanage was a dark, rather dismal place. We were not allowed to take pictures inside, but I do remember seeing the room she grew up in with its dark walls, lack of toys, and rows of cribs filled with babies. Each crib contained two babies…probably so that they could warm each other during the cold winter. Although it was obvious that the nannies cared for the kids, It was also painfully obvious that there were not near enough nannies to take care of all the emotional needs of the kids. It broke my heart to think of Gracie growing up in this place for the first 20 months of her life.
The director wanted to take us out to lunch and asked us if we preferred Chinese food or KFC. I am not an adventurous eater and I was not sure what kind of food an authentic Chinese restaurant in a rural area would offer, so we played it safe and went to KFC.
Gracie with her favorite nanny.
Gracie’s favorite nanny was not at the orphanage that day since it was her day off. But, she did meet us at KFC and promptly took over taking care of Gracie. It was so sweet to see….she took her on the little playground at the restaurant and helped her with her food. She said a tearful goodbye to Gracie when we left.
That day was so special to all of us because we were able to meet the people who raised Gracie when she was a baby. But, I was so thankful that she was ours now.
Gracie when she was 4 years old.
Many people tell us how lucky Gracie is because we adopted her and that we have made such a difference in her life. But, I don’t see it that way. Gracie has blessed us immeasurably and enriched our lives. I am sometimes surprised when I see us together in a mirror because we look so different from each other. The reason I feel surprise is that Gracie is my daughter and I am as much her mother as I am to my two biological daughters who do look like me. There is no difference in the love I feel for her in my heart.
Summertime temperatures bring a riot of color to my desert garden and my plants are growing larger and larger. The combination of warm (okay, hot) temperatures and summer rains means that my garden is going crazy with growth and blooms.
As I walked around the garden taking pictures, I came away with photos of a large number of yellow flowering plants, some recent transplants, and a couple of plants who normally do not flower this time of year (I must have neglected to tell them when they are normally supposed to flower 😉
Arizona Yellow Bells (Tecoma stans)This shrub has now reached a height of 9 ft. I will prune it back by about 1/3 in early September.
A few flowers are still blooming on my Globe Mallow (Sphaeralcea ambigua) even though it is not their typical bloom season.
I just love the sunny faces of my Desert Marigold (Baileya multiradiata), which are a perennial that is sometimes treated as an annual.
I haven’t shown this plant before, but I do love my Eremophila x Summertime Blue.
They flower off an on throughout the year and I like their bell-shaped flowers.
I transplanted this shrub back in March in order to make room for my vegetable garden. Thankfully, they survived and now beginning to thrive again.
This pretty little perennial is underused in the landscape in my opinion.
I love how the spent blooms of my Paperflower (Psilostrophe cooperi) have a ‘papery’ texture, hence the origin of the common name.
I must admit that this picture of a cluster of Orange Jubilee flowers (Tecoma x Orange Jubilee) is not from my garden, but from the garden of my mother and sister.
However, in my defense….I did design their garden and I do have the same type of plant in my garden, but my flowers do not look as nice as theirs do 😉
I love the tiny clusters of flowers of my Goodding’s Verbena (Glandularia gooddingii).
This one sits in the shade provided by my Green Desert Spoon.
An all yellow variety of Red Bird-of-Paradise (Caesalpinia pulcherrima ‘Phoenix Bird’) proudly shows off it’s flowers in my front garden.
These flowers are not normally found in August, but someone neglected to tell my Desert Museum Palo Verde tree that it can stop flowering now.
All over the Arizona desert, different types of Sages are blooming in response to the summer heat and humidity from our monsoon season. My Rio Bravo Sage are no exception 🙂
The flowers of my Rio Bravo Sage (Leucophyllum langmaniae ‘Rio Bravo’) have a light fragrance which just makes this flowering shrub even better.
What is blooming in your garden this month?
To see more blooming gardens, please visit May Dreams Gardens who hosts Garden Blogger’s Bloom Day each month.
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I wanted to thank you all again for your wonderful comments in regards to Gracie’s story. I promise I will post the third and last installment in a few days 🙂
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That was the subject line in the email that we sent to family and friends after we received our daughter, Gracie. I wrote about our adoption journey up the point of seeing Gracie for the first time in person and you can read Part Oneif you like.
Well, I believe I left the story at the point of the elevator opening and seeing the orphanage officials walking out with Gracie in their arms. Although I recognized her instantly, there was something different in her appearance….she had no hair. Well to be honest, she had very little hair…..it was obvious that her head had recently been shaved. It really didn’t matter, I was just so happy to see her finally in person.
The nanny from the orphanage walked over and handed Gracie to me….
Gracie was wearing the outfit that we had sent her a month ago. She was obviously not sure what was going on. She had spent over 3 hours in a car in order to get to the hotel we were staying at and it very well may have been the first time she had ever been in a car.
We each spent a little time checking each other out. Gracie had never seen anyone who wasn’t Asian before. She did not try to get away from me and she did not cry. She was just taking it all in.
Her dad and I were just so thrilled to finally have her in our arms. But, Gracie probably thought I was the strangest person she had ever seen….blond hair, blue eyes, white skin and a big nose (more about that later in the story).
We spent some time there with the orphanage director and her nanny asking questions through a translator. It was obvious that they were happy she was being adopted. Her nanny was eager to show us how Gracie could walk a couple of steps, which she did, but she fell down after taking 3 steps….her club foot made it difficult for her to walk normally.
I was eager to take Gracie back with us to our hotel room and as we said our goodbyes to the orphanage officials, her nanny shed a few tears. Back in our room, I took off her clothes which were much too hot for the month of August. She was in good condition and only had a little heat rash behind her neck. Up until this point, I had been the one to hold her, but now it was her new dad’s turn.
As happy as we were, I could only imagine the turmoil of feelings that Gracie must have been experiencing. She had just been dropped off by the only caretakers she had ever known and left in the care of complete strangers who looked so different from anyone she had ever seen.
As I held her that first night and fed her a bottle, Gracie reached up and grabbed my nose and held onto it for a few minutes. I was surprised at first…I had never thought of my nose as abnormally big. But then when I thought about it, she had probably never seen a nose that sticks out – most Asian noses are somewhat flat. Soon after she let go of my nose she went right to sleep.
After waiting 15 months of waiting, we just wanted to keep holding her that night, but we finally put her in the crib. Guess what? She slept for 11 hours 🙂
We had to spend a few days in Hangzhou, which is the provincial capital, in order to finalize the adoption in China and get her Chinese passport so that she could travel to the US.
The next morning, Gracie woke up a little disoriented, but was otherwise happy to get her bottle of rice cereal. We were rather shocked to discover that at 20 months of age, she had only eaten milk and rice cereal.
We gave her a bath and I finally got to put on one of the dresses that I had bought for her. We spent the morning filling out paperwork and finalizing her adoption. Then a trip to get her passport photo as well as our first family photo was the extent of what we did this day. It was important to spend a lot of one on one time with her to help with the bonding process. At this stage, she was more likely to want to be with an Asian person because they looked more familiar and so our guide took care to stay in the background for all of us in the group. She spent much of the day working on our paperwork.
The next morning, something special happened. The kids were on the floor playing while us mothers were talking as a group nearby. Gracie’s almost bald head was popular with the other newly adopted kids in our group because they liked rubbing her head.
Well, Gracie stood up on her own and walked a few steps towards me and then crawled the rest of the way over and stretched out her arms to me so that I could hold her. It was the first sign that she was beginning to bond with me…it made me want to cry with happiness.
Our remaining days in Hangzhou were spent applying for an expedited passport and then sight-seeing while waiting for the passport to be ready.
We were very fortunate to be staying in Hangzhou as the area is so beautiful. We toured West Lake.
Yes, that is a golden water buffalo in the lake.
Guess what we found next to the lake….
Gracie sleeping in my arms at Starbucks.
Starbucks!
We were having a wonderful time touring around West Lake, but Gracie evidently wasn’t too interested as she promptly fell asleep…
Our adoption agency organized a tour of a local orphanage (not Gracie’s) that they ran. I had been looking forward to visiting an orphanage since Gracie’s was too far away for us to visit. This orphanage was the role model of what China wanted other orphanages to follow and so they often sent employees there to be trained. My husband stayed back at the hotel with Gracie because we were afraid that she would be alarmed at finding herself in another orphanage.
Fun with dad playing on the computer in our hotel room.
This was a very special visit and I saw many precious children. You can click on the photos below to enlarge if you like.
This little albino boy was adopted 2 years later.
The babies in cribs were lying on bamboo mats to help keep them cool.
Precious little girl.
Have you ever seen so much hair?
The orphanage doctor showing our guide a little girl who was failing to thrive.
Playroom (we had to wear booties over our shoes to keep the floor clean.
**Unbeknown to me, my future son is in the yellow/green/red jumper.
I met a little friend…Chen Bo who wanted me to stop taking pictures so that he could crawl into my lap.
Saying goodbye….
I had a wonderful time visiting the orphanage and my heart ached for all of the children who had no parents. But, I couldn’t wait to get back to the hotel and be with Gracie again.
Gracie quickly began to bond with us and became more extroverted. She began walking more and was able to stay on her feet longer. She loved it when her dad would ‘chase’ her down the hotel hallway. *You can see that she walked on the ankle of her right foot. It was amazing to me that she could walk at all.
We were enjoying our time in China very much. We did seem to attract attention wherever we went because foreign tourists did not travel to this area often, so we encountered stares almost everywhere we went. The Chinese people were not being rude….it is not considered rude to stare in China. Also, the culture is more of a inter-dependent culture, where our western culture focuses more on individualism. As a result, it was normal for Chinese women to come up and make sure that our children were dressed appropriately for the weather (they are affectionately known as the ‘clothing police’ in the adoptive community).
I had a great time shopping.
I tried to ignore the stares though.
The Chinese people we met were extremely curious about why we had Chinese children with us. The fact that Europeans and Americans adopt from China was not well know inside of China. They were courteous and wished us well when we explained that we were adopting Gracie. Because of their inter-dependent culture, sometimes strangers would come up to Gracie and hold her club foot in their hands in order to figure out what was wrong with it. Now, in America, I would have politely told them not to touch my daughter. But, it is different in China where they were genuinely concerned and it was not considered rude to take matters into their own hands to find out what was wrong with her.
One older woman scolded me when we were walking with a sleeping Gracie in her stroller. You see, Gracie’s head had rolled forward and the stroller did not adjust back, so there was nothing that I could do. Well, while this well-intentioned woman was scolding me, I just picked up Gracie’s head and put it back up and then it promptly rolled forward again and I just shrugged my shoulders and walked on 😉
I must admit at this point, that I am not an adventurous eater. But, I did find many foods that I enjoyed in China. Not this one though….my husband is the adventurous eater in our family and enjoyed eating a little bit of everything.
Our group ate a wonderful dinner at restaurant and we were so excited to have Gracie try some of the different food (she had been limited to rice cereal up to this point). She seemed to love the peas and kept eating them. We were so happy to see her eating other foods. Later that night as my husband was leaning over to put her into the crib, a pea dropped out of her mouth. Further exploration found over 17 peas stuck inside of her cheeks.
Because Gracie had spent her life in an orphanage to this point, she was delayed in many areas which we had expected. One of the problems we discovered was that she did not know how to swallow solid foods.
Our travel group ready to leave from the Hangzhou airport.
Our time in Hangzhou was coming to a close and the next part of our trip was upcoming. I was a little nervous about how Gracie would do on an airplane, but she did very well. We said goodbye to our guide and flew with the rest of our group to Guangzhou (formerly known as Canton) in Southern China.
Some of you may remember me mentioning that I am a wimp about hot weather when it is coupled with high humidity. Well, when we landed in Guangzhou, it was even more hot and humid then where we had come from. But, it was so beautiful! * It smelled like the ride “Pirates of the Caribbean” at Disneyland.
We stayed on a small island in Guangzhou known as Shamian Island. Filled with European Colonial architecture and beautiful, formal gardens, I couldn’t wait to explore more.
The United States Consulate was located on the island at the time and this portion of the trip was focused on completing our immigration paperwork and securing a visa for Gracie so that we could travel to the States.
Our hotel was a 5-star hotel and the primary place that adoptive parents stayed while waiting for their child’s visa. It was beautiful inside….
I remember walking into our hotel room and telling my husband that we had better enjoy this stay because we were highly unlikely to ever stay in another place as nice. *The foreign exchange rate at the time made it very affordable to stay there ($1 = 8 yuan).
In our new hotel, Gracie played for hours with the plastic spoon and cover of my airplane lunch – she was absolutely fascinated. We were coming to see what her delays where. She would spend time in front of the mirror and would tap it with her fingers. It was obvious that she had never seen herself in a mirror before. She also liked to eat Cheerios, but she could not pick them up with her thumb and forefinger. **A few years later a visit to her orphanage showed us how deprived she had been of sensory input. I will write more about that at a later time.
We enjoyed our time on Shamian Island with walks, shopping and hanging out with the wonderful people in our group.
One afternoon when we returned to our room in the hotel, we saw that Gracie had received a surprise gift….
Yes, that is a Barbie doll. Notice she has a Chinese baby she is adopting. All adoptive families receive a complimentary “Going Home Barbie” and each year there is a new version.
Our hotel had new hallways for Gracie to explore with her dad.
And to be chased again….
All to soon, our time in China was coming to an end. Our group gathered in the lobby to take a picture of all of our adopted girls.
Gracie is on the left.
Two of the girls had been adopted a few years before.
It is amazing how strongly you bond with other families when you share an experience like this. Most of us are still in contact with each other 7 years later.
I was so excited to be going home to my other daughters and couldn’t wait to introduce the entire family to Gracie. The flight was a long one and Gracie did well for the most part. We landed in Los Angeles and went through immigration in the airport. Once we handed them her visa – she was an American citizen.
Just outside of immigration was a bunch of people just waiting to see Gracie for the first time and welcome her to our family.
All of a sudden this little girl who had been abandoned as a baby, not only had a mom and dad, but two sets of grandparents, aunts and uncles waiting outside the gates to welcome her to the family.
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If you would like to read more of what happened after we adopted Gracie, you can read Part 3 if you like. This post is already so long and although many of you mentioned that you didn’t mind the length of my previous post, you probably would like a little break from reading 🙂
I would like to thank you all for your kind comments. Gracie has enjoyed having me read your comments to her. She has been such a miracle in our lives and I enjoy sharing her story whenever I can.
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Citrus, September and Lemonade….
CitrusGrowing up, we had a lemon tree in our backyard in California. I loved to be able to go outside and just pick lemons whenever we needed them. As an adult, I must admit that of all the different kinds of citrus trees – lemon are my favorite. Our first home in Phoenix came with two mature citrus trees in the back garden….grapefruit and orange, but sadly no lemon trees. We did plant one, but moved a year later and so did not get to enjoy any lemons.
Cannot wait for fresh lemonade
We have lived in our current home for over 10 years and we have no fruit trees growing in the garden (I may be changing that soon). We have been blessed by the residents of Double S Farms (my mother, my sister and her family) who have many different types of fruit trees and they share their bountiful harvests with us. The best part is that they have a large lemon tree and I get to use all the lemons that I need.
Right now, the lemon tree is covered in green fruit that will soon ripen. Can you see the lemons?
For healthy citrus trees and delicious fruit, a regular fertilization program is needed. They need to be fertilized three times a year….Feb/Mar, May and Aug/Sept. You can use either a regular citrus fertilizer or you can go the organic route and use an organic citrus fertilizer.
If you have not already fertilized your citrus trees, now is the time. You can read more about citrus and their needs in my post from last September if you like.
Soon these green lemons will turn yellow and then it will be time to pick them…..
One of my favorite things to do with lemons is to juice them and freeze the juice for later use throughout the year. Right now, my frozen lemon juice is running pretty low. I cannot wait for new lemons and my kids cannot wait for fresh lemonade 🙂
I hope you all had a great holiday weekend.
I am getting ready to seed my vegetable garden today 🙂
A Wonderful Dilemma….Part 2
AZ Plant LadyI mentioned earlier this week about our beautiful Palo Verde tree that fell victim to the high winds of a monsoon storm. As sad as I was for the loss of my tree, I began to realize that I would now have to choose a replacement. Now I don’t know about you, but I just love it when I get to buy a new tree or plant. My husband is not usually as excited as I am because he is usually the one digging the holes 😉
Faced with the wonderful dilemma of having to choosing what type of tree to plant, I have began to go through the list of candidates – listing their positives and sometimes the negatives. In my last post, we looked at 12 different trees and today I would like to finish the list of prospective tree choices.
Texas Mountain Laurel (Sophora secundiflora)
I think it is the purple flowers that show up in the springtime that make this one of my favorite small trees. The flowers are not only beautiful, but they perfume the air with the fragrance of grape bubblegum.
When not blooming, Texas Mountain Laurel makes an extremely attractive evergreen tree or large shrub, depending on how you prune (train) it. At maturity, it can reach heights of 15 – 25 ft. high and up to 15 ft. wide. I like how it grows in full sun as well as light shade. The fact that it is thornless is a bonus.
Most people I have spoken to are not generally fans of seedpods and try to stay away from trees that produce them. However, most do not mind the seedpods of the Texas Mountain Laurel, because they add an attractive element to the tree. The seedpods contain bright red seeds that are poisonous, but are extremely hard. As a result, experts say that the seeds would likely pass through the digestive tract, undigested.
*Caterpillars can become a problem during warm weather, but you can just ignore them and/or pick them off. If you see loose webbing on the leaves, that is a sign that it is infected by caterpillars. The damage caused from the caterpillars does not usually hurt the tree. It helps if you detect the eggs before they hatch and remove them. Since caterpillars usually infect the new growth, I just prune off the affected areas.
As much as I love this small tree, I will probably look for something that will grow a little taller.
Willow Acacia (Acacia salicina)
Another of my favorite imports from Australia, Willow Acacia offers beauty in narrower spaces. I planted over 100 of these trees in golf courses. Their relative low maintenance, lack of thorns, and graceful willow-like growth habit makes this tree an asset in many areas. I also love that fact that they are evergreen. You can see them growing in common areas, entry and patio gardens as well as golf courses.
Their mature size of approximately 40 ft high and 20 ft. wide make this a great selection to use in a narrow space such as a side yard.
In late summer and fall, cream colored, puffball flowers appear which have a pleasing, light fragrance.
I may have to seriously consider planting a Willow Acacia….
Ironwood (Olneya tesota)
A somewhat iconic desert tree is the Ironwood. Native to the southwestern deserts, this tree is characterized by gray-green foliage, and extremely hard wood. A slow growing tree, it can reach 30 ft. high and 25 ft. wide, although I have seen some specimens that are larger. Almost evergreen, it loses it’s leaves just before flowering in late winter, although severe drought can also cause it to lose it’s leaves.
This beautiful tree does best in full sun and should be kept away from close proximity to pedestrian areas as the thorns can be troublesome. In late winter, their flowers begin to appear. The trees appear covered in a lavender mist. The flowers are small but are incredibly breathtaking up close…. but you can easily miss them, so pay attention.
Ironwood trees are often found growing on golf courses in our area. Usually, the golf course was built around certain specimen trees that were already present. Ironwood trees do not fare very well over time when planted in grassy areas. I have seen my share of stately Ironwood trees decline over time on golf courses until they had to be removed.
I do love this tree, but would like to keep away from having thorny trees in my back garden where my children play and would also like a tree that is somewhat faster growing. **I am normally a proponent of purchasing trees in smaller containers such as a 15- gallon tree instead of a 24″ box tree because once in the ground, the 15-gallon tree will rapidly catch up in size to the planted 24″ box tree. BUT when shopping for a tree that is known to be a slow-grower, then I do recommend buying the largest size you can afford.
Evergreen Elm (Ulmus parvifolia)
Contrary to the common name, Evergreen Elm, this beautiful shade tree is NOT evergreen. *I would really love to talk to the people who come up with these common names 😉 If you want a large shade tree, then this is a great selection. Bright, light green leaves, smooth bark that chips off in the shape of puzzle pieces, thornless…..there is little not to love. It does drop it’s leaves in winter and they do not change into pretty autumn colors before falling off.
When deciding where to plant, make sure to allow plenty of room for the roots of this 35 ft. x 35 ft. tree. The dense shade it produces is a welcome respite from a hot, summer day. But the shade makes it difficult for summer grass to grow underneath as well as many plants.
Personally, I would like to try to find an evergreen tree for my garden that does not produce dense shade because I do like to plant underneath my trees.
Jacaranda(Jacaranda mimosifilia)
Growing up in Southern California, Jacaranda trees are quite familiar to me. I love their tropical foliage and the flowers are just beautiful. Many transplanted Californians now make their home in Arizona and as a result, like to plant many plants that remind them of home.
Jacaranda trees are actually native to Brazil, but are grown in tropical and semi-tropical regions around the world. In their native, tropical climate, they can exceed heights of 50 ft. x 30 ft. wide. In our semi-tropical, arid climate, they do not grow quite as large as those grown in areas with warmer winters, such as California.
The flowers are just lovely and when they fall, they create a carpet of purple underneath the tree….so don’t rush to rake up the fallen flowers.
In areas with cooler winters, they do lose their leaves. They can also be damaged by hard frosts which sometimes occur in our area, so I would recommend planting in an area that receives some protection from frost.
My parents had a Jacaranda tree in their San Pedro, CA garden and so did my father-in-law in his Scottsdale, AZ garden. As a result, I was able to enjoy their beauty up close. But, I would rather plant a tree that is more tolerant of the occasional hard frosts that my zone 8b garden receives.
Shoestring Acacia (Acacia stenophylla)
Another import from Australia, Shoestring Acacia makes a wonderful addition to the residential landscape. They are also found growing in parking lots, common areas and golf courses.
This is also a great tree for narrow areas. Evergreen, thornless and long leaves that remind you of shoestrings, hence the common name. At maturity, they can reach heights of 30 ft. high while only reaching 20 ft. wide.
Even if you aren’t a fan of seedpods, these pods look very cool, I think….
These seedpods make great Christmas decorations for the tree….they look like beads strung together. One Christmas, I had a tree solely covered with seedpods from different trees. My mother makes fantastic wreaths out of seedpods. I will probably do a seedpod post soon.
There really nothing negative about Shoestring Acacias, except that they can look somewhat scrawny when they are young. I remember planting them in groups of three around golf courses when the superintendent (my boss) asked me if they would always look so scrawny. I promised him that in 2 years, he would be thanking me for planting them….and he did 😉 Just be patient and you will be rewarded.
Shoestring Acacia is a tree that I may need to consider my garden.
Mesquite (Prosopis species)
Besides Palo Verde trees, Mesquites are probably the second most iconic tree of the desert southwest. You may be surprised to find out that the Mesquite trees found in most landscapes are not the same ones found growing out in the desert, but rather imports from South America.
Mesquite trees are known for growing quickly and providing filtered shade. There are many good reasons to include one in your garden as well as some negatives to be mindful of. The most important consideration for most homeowners is whether the Mesquite they have chosen is a thornless species or not.
First the positives…..beautiful shade tree, moderate to fast growing, thornless varieties available, edible seedpods, flowers attract bees which serve to pollinate other areas of the garden.
Now the negatives…..susceptible to damage from the wind, needs to be staked longer then some other types of trees, thorns (depending on variety), seedpod litter, invasive roots, susceptible to mistletoe infestation, pruning is often required more than once a year.
Here is a list of the most popular Mesquite species and their characteristics:
Argentine Mesquite (Prosopis alba)
20 – 40 ft. high and wide
Thorns
Mostly evergreen
Native to South America
Chilean Mesquite (Prosopis chilensis)
30 ft. high and wide
Some types are thornless
Semi-deciduous (Loses most leaves in winter)
Native to South America
Honey Mesquite (Prosopis glandulosa)
15 – 30 ft. high / 20 – 40 ft. wide
Thorns
Deciduous (loses leaves in winter)
Native to southwestern North America
Velvet Mesquite (Prosopis velutina)
30 ft. high and wide
Thorns
Semi-evergreen
Native to southwestern North America
I love the beauty of Mesquite trees and have grown many both professionally and in my own garden at one time. But for me personally, the maintenance that they require is more than I want to do in my own garden.
Brazilian Pepper Tree (Schinus teribinthifolius)
This attractive tree has a multitude of uses in the landscape. Brazilian Pepper trees can be found in parks, golf courses, along roadside plantings and residential landscapes. It’s mature size of 15 – 30 ft. high and wide makes it suitable to be used as a patio tree.
In winter, it is evergreen and the female trees produce pretty red clusters of small berries. The fact that it is also thornless makes it a welcome addition to the garden.
Although it is somewhat invasive in humid climates, that is not a problem in arid regions.
I’m not sure about this one for my garden….maybe?
Leatherleaf Acacia (Acacia craspedocarpa)
This small tree can create great contrast in the landscape with it’s gray-green leaves. I find it looks most attractive when planted in groups of 3 or 5, although it would make a great patio tree if planted alone.
Native to Australia, it’s relative small size of 10 – 15 ft. high and wide make it perfect for small areas.
Evergreen, thornless, extremely low-maintenance and interestingly shaped leaves make this tree an asset in the landscape. The leaves are thick and somewhat leathery in texture, hence it’s common name.
I have not personally grown this tree, but would not hesitate too. But in this case, I am looking for a larger tree.
Weeping Acacia (Acacia pendula)
I love the botanical name for this Australian native as it so aptly describes the pendulous branches. I really have a thing for trees that have a weeping type of growth. I’m not sure why.
This tree grows up to 40 ft. high and 25 ft. wide. The light gray-green color also contrasts nicely with darker green foliage in the landscape. The rate of growth is rather slow, so I think I will not add this one to my list.
Well, I wish that I could say that I know exactly what type of tree I am going to plant, but I am honestly not sure. I wrote these posts to help myself as well as those who may be considering some of these trees as well in order to help them with their choice.
I will probably hold off until October or November to make my final decision as they are the best months for planting in our area.
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Right now, my vegetable garden is calling to me to come out and plant some seeds.
I hope you are all having a great weekend!
How to Select A Desert Tree
Arizona, Arizona garden, AZ Plant Lady, California desert garden, desert gardening, Drought Tolerant, Las Vegas gardening, Nevada garden, New Mexico garden, Southwest garden, Southwest Texas garden, TreesI am faced with a wonderful dilemma of selecting a desert tree…
My last post dealt with the loss of one of our beautiful ‘Desert Museum’ palo verde trees. So now we are faced with the question of which type of tree should we choose to replace the one that I lost? We worked hard the past couple of days to remove the fallen tree and now have a bare space to fill.
I have lived in my home (and garden) for over ten years. As our house was being built, we designed the surrounding garden. I enjoyed deciding which trees I would choose to grace our desert garden with not only beauty but shade in the summer months. I honestly do not understand people who don’t plant trees in the garden – especially in desert climates. They not only provide wonderful shade in the summer months but also add a lot of value to your property.
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Considering Options for Selecting a Desert Tree
I loved my palo verde tree that fell…..I have two others just like it, including the one pictured above. There is much to like about these trees beside the beautiful green trunks – they are fast growing, thornless, evergreen and yellow flowers in the spring. The only drawbacks are that there is litter from the fallen flowers in spring, which means that it should not be planted by a pool. The fallen flowers do not bother me at all – I rather enjoy the carpet of yellow.
But, even with all of the wonderful attributes of this tree, I have decided to select another type of tree as it’s the replacement. Why may you ask? Well, because they grow quickly, I do have to prune them quite a bit. I do not mind pruning, but pruning three of these trees each year was becoming much more of a chore.
Another reason is that in addition to being a horticulturist, I am also a certified arborist and I do love trees and have grown many different kinds in the landscapes that I managed. Right now, I have 14 trees (8 different types) growing in my front, back and side gardens. I would enjoy adding another kind of tree to my plant palette.
So, here comes the fun part…which one to choose?
Selecting a Desert Tree Variety:
Desert Fern (Lysiloma thornberi)
Desert Fern (Lysiloma thornberi, Lysiloma watsonii var. thornberi, Lysiloma microphylla var. thornberi)
One of my favorite things about the desert fern is the beautiful, fern-like leaves – hence its common name.
Another plus is that is a native, desert tree and is thornless. The leaves turn a slight maroon color in the winter in our zone 8b climate. In colder winters the leaves may drop altogether. Although what I would call a medium sized tree, it typically grows from 15 – 45 feet high and wide.
One drawback is that it does produce brown seed pods, which some people do not like, but I have no problem with them at all.
*I do have a desert fern tree already, and although another one would look great in my newly bare area, I think I will try to choose a different type of tree.
Sweet Acacia (Acacia farnesiana, Acacia smallii)
Sweet Acacia(Acacia farnesiana, Acacia smallii)
In the springtime, air is perfumed with the fragrance of the bright yellow puffball flowers of the sweet acacia. When not in flower, the tiny, dark green leaves are easier to see.
Although found in other areas of the United States, it is also native to the southwest. The mature size is approximately 25 feet high and wide. In areas with mild winters, the leaves will remain on the tree. Dark brown seedpods are produced once flowering has finished.
Some drawbacks to consider are the thorns having to be careful when pruning is necessary (requiring gloves and long sleeves). Now, I am more of a “Do as I say” person rather than a “Do as I do” person. I always wear gloves when I prune, but I rarely wear long sleeves in the summer months. As a result, I have some small scratch scars on my forearms from pruning sweet acacia in the past.
Although I love the beauty, size and the springtime fragrance of this tree, I don’t think I want to accrue any more scars on my arms 😉
Southern Live Oak (Quercus virginiana)
Southern Live Oak (Quercus virginiana)
Believe it or not, oak trees do very well in our desert climate. Southern live oak, cork oak, and holly oak are all found in the suburban landscape. Southern live oak is the most prevalent, however.
There is little not to love about these trees – they are thornless, have evergreen foliage, are tolerant of full and reflected sun making this tree very low-maintenance. In non-desert climates, they can reach heights of up to 40 – 60 ft., but will not grow that large in the desert. In the landscape areas that I managed, they were a favorite because there was so little maintenance required.
I may be crazy, but this tree seems a little boring to me. Not sure exactly what it is. I spent my teenage years growing up in the town of Thousand Oaks, California and the hillsides are dotted with large, specimen oak trees. The oak trees that I see growing in our area do not resemble the ones from my childhood, so maybe that is the reason that I do not have any in my garden. But, I would wholeheartedly recommend this tree to anyone who wants a lovely, low-maintenance tree.
Bottle Tree (Brachychiton populneus)
Bottle Tree (Brachychiton populneus)
Some of you may be surprised to know that many of our trees and shrubs are grown in our arid climate are native to Australia. The bottle tree is one of them. First of all, I love the shape of the leaves and how the sun reflects off of them in a gentle breeze. I also like the slightly pendulous way that the branches hang down. Evergreen in areas with mild winters and a smooth trunk make it an asset in the garden. Its mature size of 30 – 45 feet high and 30 feet wide, makes it suitable for narrower spaces.
As a child, growing up in Los Angeles, we had one in our front garden. My sister and I used to pretend that the little flowers were ‘fairy caps’ and the flowers were soon followed by large, brown seedpods.
The pods themselves are quite cool looking, and my mother would use them in making wreaths out of seedpods. But what I most remember about the seedpods is getting some of the ‘fuzz’ from the inside stuck on my bare feet, and it hurt. I think that is maybe why I do not have this tree in my garden. But, many people I know who have a bottle tree love them.
**One note of caution, this tree is quite susceptible to Texas (Cotton) root rot (a fungal disease that infects the roots). So if you know of cases of Texas root rot in your neighborhood, I would advise growing another type of tree.
Palo Blanco (Acacia willardiana)
Palo Blanco (Acacia willardiana)
If you have not already noticed already, I am somewhat biased about certain types of trees. This one is one of my favorite smaller trees. The word ‘palo blanco; means “white stick” in Spanish and refers to the white trunk of this tree – considered to be one of its most attractive assets.
The bark peels off in papery sheets. Palo blanco trees look great when planted near each other in groups of 3 or 5 where their distinctive tree trunks can be shown off.
I also like the bright green foliage of the trees and their tiny leaflets. In winter, the leaves do fall from the desert native, but they are so small and do not create much litter.
When mature, it reaches a height of 15 – 20 feet and spreads to 10 feet wide which makes it suitable for a patio tree or other small area. Maintenance is minimal, only requiring a small amount of pruning.
Tiny flowers grace the tree in spring, followed by decorative seed pods.
I like these trees so much that I have three of them. They are growing against my west-facing garden wall and do great in the reflected sun. But, I will probably choose something else for my bare area since I would like a tree that is a little larger for that area.
Indian Rosewood / Sissoo (Dalbergia sissoo)
Indian Rosewood / Sissoo (Dalbergia sissoo)
It’s hard to beat the sissoo tree for fast growth and shade. However, they ARE NOT recommended for average size residential landscapes. The photo of the tree above was taken four years after it was planted from a 15-gallon container and it rapidly grew even larger – soon, it had to be removed due to its invasive roots. This tree made its debut in the Phoenix area about 15 years ago and rapidly became quite popular for its lush green beauty.
As sissoo trees have been grown in the southwest landscape for several years, problems have begun to crop up. They have invasive root systems that cause problems with sidewalks, patio decks, pools, and block walls. Also, their mature size is so big that they dwarf the landscapes they have been planted in. Shallow watering often causes the roots to grow along the surface.
Sissoo trees are best used in large outdoor areas such as parks.
Olive (Olea europaea)
Olive (Olea europaea)
As an option, olive trees work well. Most are multi-trunk with beautiful olive green leaves. They are evergreen and thornless. Regular fruiting olives are no longer sold in many cities due to their highly allergenic pollen. Thankfully, there is a non-fruiting cultivar called ‘Swan Hill Olives’® which is available.
Reaching a mature size of 20 – 30 feet high and wide, olive trees make excellent shade trees and are slow-growing. Some olive trees have fallen prey to some creative pruning (see photo below).
Definitely memorable, but not quite my taste. I would like a tree that will not take too long to grow, so let’s press on to other trees.
Texas Ebony (Ebenopsis/Pithecellobium flexicaule)
Beautiful Texas Ebony (Ebenopsis/Pithecellobium flexicaule)
An excellent choice is Texas ebony. Particularly for those who like a dense, dark green canopy of leaves. Native to both Texas and Mexico, this tree does very well in the Arizona desert. Everything about this tree is dark – the green leaves the dark brown trunk.
This evergreen tree, has thorns and large brown seedpods. Texas ebony grows slowly to about 15 – 30 feet high and 15 – 20 feet wide.
This is a favorite tree with my clients, but again, I am looking for a tree that grows more quickly.
Chinese Pistache (Pistacia chinensis)
Chinese Pistache (Pistacia chinensis)
An excellent tree for those who like lush, green trees that lose their leaves in winter. Chinese pistache grows to 25 – 25 feet high and wide and has some welcome surprises. It is a deciduous tree known for its stunning fall foliage. Native to China, this tree has become popular in various regions due to its vibrant red, orange, and yellow leaves during autumn. Its small, round fruits are enjoyed by birds.
Chinese Pistache trees are also valued for their drought tolerance and adaptability to different soil types, making them a favored choice for landscaping and urban environments.
It is one of the few trees in our area that produces a rich fall color. Female trees produce clusters of little berries in the fall.
I like this tree, but I want to see more trees before I decide…..
Cascalote (Caesalpinia cacalaco)
Cascalote (Caesalpinia cacalaco)
Another tree that also provides beautiful color in fall and winter is the cascalote. Plumes of yellow flowers start to appear in November and stay through December. At maturity, they reach approximately 15 feet tall and wide.
I love the clusters of small round leaves that are evergreen.
Now I am not a fan of thorns, but the thorns on this tree are almost pretty. You need to plant this tree away from pedestrian areas due to the thorns. You can remove the thorns if you like, which is what I have done in the past. However, there is now a thornless variety, called ‘Smoothie.’
The first flowers of the season begin to open. I bought my first one on a field trip with my Plant Identification college class to the Boyce Thompson Arboretum. I brought it home and planted it in a container because we were renting a house at the time, waiting for our new home to be built. Later, I planted it in our front garden, and I look forward to the beautiful yellow flowers in the fall.
Aleppo Pine (Pinus halepensis)
Aleppo Pine (Pinus halepensis)
Believe it or not, some pine trees also do well in the desert. I love the sound of the wind as it blows through pine trees. Aleppo, Canary Island (Pinus canariensis) and mondel pines (Pinus eldarica) are all found in suburban areas of the lower desert areas of the southwest.
Depending on the species, they grow anywhere from 30 – 60 feet tall and most should not be planted in a residential landscape unless there is ample room for growth. They can suffer from soils and water with high amounts of salts.
Pine trees offer heavy shade that will prevent most grasses from growing underneath. Pine needles litter the ground as well. But did you know that pine needles make an excellent mulch? As they break down, they help to acidify our alkaline soils. And so, if you have a neighbor with pine trees, offer to rake some pine needles up to put in your garden. Your neighbor will be so happy 🙂
I am pretty sure that I will not plant a pine tree because I have memories of many hours spent nursing along many pine trees growing on golf courses that were irrigated with reclaimed water. Most of the pine trees did not do well with the high level of salts in the effluent water.
Desert Willow (Chilopsis linearis)
Desert Willow (Chilopsis linearis)
A summer favorite is the desert willow tree. Beautiful, willow-shaped leaves and flowers brighten up the summer garden. It can grow anywhere from 8 – 30 feet high and wide. Available in both single and multi-trunk, I prefer the beauty of the multi-trunk shape.
You will find this tree growing in parks, roadside plantings as well as in residential landscapes. Its small-medium size makes it suitable for smaller areas. It does lose its leaves in winter and forms narrow seed capsules. While not the prettiest tree in winter, the flowers produced spring through fall make it more than worth it and there are new (almost seedless) varieties such as ‘Bubba’ and ‘Timeless Beauty’ that produce little to no seedpods.
That is why I have four currently growing in my garden. They are simply lovely.
I would still like to find something different, that I do not currently have growing in my garden.
I need to continue looking at possible tree choices. (You can check out my second post of possible tree selections, here 🙂
P.S. Do you have more questions about choosing a tree for your landscape? I share my experience as a horticulturist and certified arborist and profile my top 20 along with all of their characteristics in my mini-course “How to Select the Right Tree for Your Desert Garden”.
Fallen Beauty….
PruningIsn’t it interesting how the best laid plans go awry? I had great plans for the beginning of this week. I was getting ready to build my flower garden. I have had visions of a garden filled with both annual and perennial flowers suitable for cutting for bouquets.
My garden however, had other plans……
Yesterday evening, I noticed that one of my ‘Desert Museum’ Palo Verde trees was leaning against the fence that blocks off the side yard. I call this area a ‘yard’ and not a ‘garden’ because it is where our dog run is located. My husband and I rushed out to see what had happened and our tree had fallen part way over. The night before, had brought a monsoon storm to our neighborhood and the high winds brought the tree down. It was only held up by the fence.
I was honestly surprised that this tree had fallen. I loved this tree…..it’s beautiful yellow flowers blooming throughout the spring, it’s bright green trunk and branches and the welcome shade it brought to my desert garden.
Flower Garden
You can see the tree in the background. I normally do not take pictures of our side yard because besides the two Palo Verde trees, there is not much to see besides the dogs….
This is Seiko (pronounced ‘Psycho’) and he is telling me that he is hungry. We did not name him…..he came with the name 😉 The chicken wire along the bottom of the fence is to keep our little dog, Tobey, from coming in to play with Seiko.
I posted a picture of this tree earlier this year as the sun was setting. I loved how the sun set off the beauty of the yellow blossoms.
Oftentimes, when a tree has fallen part way and the roots are still in the ground, I am often called to a client’s home to ascertain if their tree can be saved by pulling upright and re-staking it. This can be a tricky to determine sometimes. If the roots are girdled (growing around in circles) then I usually do recommend removing the tree because the roots aren’t growing outwards which help to anchor the tree.
If the tree went over because of not being pruned correctly or watered incorrectly, then it might be saved if these things are done properly. I do remind people to keep in mind if they do stake their tree back up, that there is an excellent chance that it will fall again, which can be a hazard. But, if they are very attached to their tree and want to give it another chance, then by all means I tell them to go for it.
Sadly, it turns out that our tree had girdled roots and had to come out. It is difficult to diagnose girdled roots ahead of time because it usually occurs at the nursery. Either by being planted incorrectly, or by being in it’s container for too long. When I would purchase trees for the landscapes I managed, the nurseries would often contact me to let me know they were having a great sale on their container trees. The usual reason was that their trees had been in the containers for quite a while and instead of transplanting them to larger containers, they put them on sale. As a result, I made it a rule to never buy a tree on sale – I did not want to take a chance that they were in their container/box too long and the roots were beginning to grow around the root ball.
My initial plan for this morning had been to go to our local big box store and purchase the supplies for my new flower garden. But, instead I spent my morning cutting down our tree with my husband and daughter, Rachele. Why didn’t we hire someone to remove it for us you may ask? Well, it is hard for me to spend around $400 to remove a tree when I was used to removing fallen trees with my crew years ago. I just can’t see paying someone to do something that I had been trained to do myself. But I think the more important motivation is that $400 is a lot of money to spend when we can do it ourselves.
You know what happens when you start pruning one tree in your garden? You find more trees that need a little pruning here and there. And so I also did some pruning on my remaining Palo Verde trees. *I really like electric chainsaws….they are much lighter and quieter then the gas powered models.
I really enjoy pruning both trees and shrubs. What I don’t like is having to clean up afterward. My kids and I usually have a great system where I do the pruning and they help clean up the branches. But today, three of my kids were in school, which left me and my husband to do the cleaning up 😉
It is usually at this point that I start questioning the wisdom of doing it ourselves instead of hiring someone else to do it instead 😉
As I walked through the cut branches, I noticed some of the few remaining yellow flowers beginning to wilt….
Flower Garden
It made me rather sad…..
An (Almost) Empty Vegetable Garden and a Bounty of Seeds…..
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I am what many people would call a “planner”. I absolutely love to plan things ahead of time…..trips, schedules, and my garden. As the month of August begins to wane, it is time to start planning my fall vegetable garden.
As a child, I would enjoy sitting down with my dad’s newest Burpee catalog, looking at the newest vegetable and flower seed offerings. Now times have changed and instead of looking through a paper catalog, I was looking at a ‘virtual’ online catalog of numerous seed company sites. One that I especially like is Botanical Interests. They offer high-quality flower and vegetable seed at reasonable prices. Even if you do not purchase seeds from them, they offer extremely helpful growing tips for each type of seed that they sell. I have seen them for sale at some local nurseries and they are also available online as well.
Okay, back to my planning. I have cleaned out much of my vegetable garden, which leaves a tomato plant (which weathered the summer heat very well under shade cloth), a pumpkin plant that is growing mostly outside of the garden and a few basil plants. The landscape designer in me loves nothing better than a mostly blank palette 🙂 Tuesday evening, found me at Double S Farms having our weekly dinner with family and my mother (Pastor Farmer) brought out a wooden chest full of seeds. She had more than she needed and offered to let me have some. *I am often blessed by the generosity of the residents (my mother, sister, and her family) of Double S Farms.
Needless to say, I was in heaven. The different seeds were stored in tiny plastic bags and then placed inside of little Gerber baby food containers. I opened the broccoli container and was so happy to find 4 different types of varieties to choose from.
I filled up my share of Ziploc bags with all different types of seeds. Have you heard the phrase “My eyes were bigger than my stomach?” Well, in this case, I believe that my eyes were bigger than my vegetable garden. I know that I do not have room to grow everything that I would like, but I have some definite favorites that I will plant.
The time to plant many vegetables and flowers begins in September in the lower deserts and I hope to find room to plant the following…..
Broccoli
Garlic
Scallions
Carrots
Lettuce
I am not sure that I have room for the following, but they can also be planted in September in our area:
Beets
Cabbage
Cauliflower
Celery
Eggplant
Peas
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Radishes
I have also decided to plant some companion plants to help attract beneficial insects and deter damaging insects to my vegetable garden.
Bachelor’s Button / Cornflower (Centaurea cyanus)
I plan on planting Bachelor’s Button, Nasturtiums and Marigolds. Each of these flowers can be directly sown by seed.
Bachelor’s Button can be planted September through November from seed and attracts many different pollinators to my garden.
Nasturtium is a powerhouse in the vegetable garden. They repel damaging insects such as aphids, whiteflies as well as some beetles. Another benefit is that insects that eat scale are also attracted by nasturtiums. *A lesser-known benefit is that both the flowers and leaves of nasturtium are edible. The leaves taste great with mixed salad greens and the flowers make a pretty garnish.
Marigolds are well known for their ability to repel damaging insects in the garden such as aphids, whiteflies, crickets and grasshoppers. French Marigolds (Tagetes patula), also help to repel nematodes in the soil. The bright flowers of all Marigolds attract butterflies and other pollinators.
Here are a few other great companion plants you may consider growing in and around your vegetable garden….
Alyssum (attracts pollinators, beneficial insects)
Basil (attracts pollinators, repels damaging insects)
Chives (repels damaging insects)
Coriander (attracts pollinators, repels damaging insects, attracts beneficial insects)
Lavender (attracts butterflies & bees, repels damaging insects)
Petunias (repels aphids)
Rosemary (flowers attract pollinators, repels damaging insects)
Thyme (attracts beneficial insects while repelling damaging insects)
I plan on preparing the soil in my raised vegetable garden by adding a mixture of compost and aged steer manure. *If you are like me and do not compost (I really should), or have cows in your backyard (I really don’t want any), you can buy both at your local big box store or local nursery. I apply compost and manure twice a year – in in late summer and late winter.
Other types of manure that are recommended for vegetable gardens are chicken and horse. Just make sure that they are aged and not fresh – fresh manure will burn your plants.
Nothing says “I love you” quite like a man who shovels manure for his wife’s vegetable garden.
I am so blessed 🙂
**Many professional and amateur vegetable gardeners have their own special garden soil recipe and they all have great results using different ratios and types of compost, manure and other amendments. What this really means to the backyard gardener is that there is no one ‘right’ recipe. Rather, there are many. The one overriding ingredient is compost. Even if compost is all you use for your garden soil, you will grow great vegetables.
I tend to go organic when I work in my vegetable garden in terms of fertilizer, but I have been known to apply a slow-release synthetic fertilizer in the past. If you decide to use a slow-release synthetic fertilizer, the labeling will tell you how long the fertilizer should last once applied. However, in our warm climate, it will not last that long….cut the length of time in half to determine how long it will really last.
Big box stores are now carrying a wide variety of organic fertilizers. I saw an organic fertilizer blend there just the other day that combined both bone meal, blood meal, micro-organisms as well as myccorhizae, which would work just great in my garden.*Mycorrhizae is a fungus that forms an extremely beneficial symbiotic relationship with plants via their roots.
And so, this weekend will find me adding my semi-annual application of compost/manure and organic fertilizer to my vegetable garden and allowing it to rest for a week or so before planting my seeds, which will actually help the soil.
I can almost taste my fresh grown vegetables…..
For more information about vegetable gardening including what and when to plant, you can check out this link.
The Joys of August….
Double S FarmsWhile we are in the midst of the dog days of August, it is easy to get discouraged when I look out into my garden. Now, that doesn’t mean that my garden looks bad….actually just the opposite. Many of my plants are in full bloom with lush, green growth. It is the lush, green growth that discourages me because my plants are calling to me to come outside and prune them.
Well, what is wrong with that? Well, it is still rather hot outside and I am so much more comfortable indoors with my best summer friend – my air conditioner. But, I promise I will soon venture outdoors again.
Meanwhile, there are many things this August that bring me joy….
Although this photo is rather blurry, it shows my son, Kai, running again – chasing his cousin. Earlier this summer, he was unable to walk as he recuperated from hip surgery. He is almost back to normal, which is wonderful especially since he loves to run.
Farm fresh eggs from my sister’s wonderful hens at Double S Farms.
My daughter, Gracie, picking out sunflower seeds to roast.
Sitting in the garden at Double S Farms, watching a tumbleweed roll by as the temperatures cool down as a monsoon storm approaches.
Toads that venture out when the rain arrives.
Deciding what to plant this fall in our vegetable garden.
The first day of school for Gracie, Ruthie and Kai.
Teaching a beginner’s vegetable gardening class this past weekend.
Now the most important joy of August, is the celebrating of new life.
Some of you may be familiar with my sisters whose gardens I sometimes feature. Well, I also have a brother.
Me, Daisy Mom of ‘The Refuge’, Chicken Farmer & Pastor Farmer of ‘Double S Farms’.
This past Saturday, we all gathered together to celebrate the coming birth of my brother and his wife’s twin boys.
The babies are due in October, but may make their appearance in September.
Two little baby birds nestled in toasted coconut on top of white chocolate cream cheese frosting……I love baking.
It was a special day with family and friends. Many people had created beautiful handmade gifts for the babies. I can hardly wait for them to arrive.
I am grateful for the joys that August has brought, but I am looking forward to what the fall is bringing….
….a trip to the east coast,
planting my vegetable garden,
two speaking engagements,
and most importantly….
being able to hold my two baby nephews 🙂
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It is not too late to create your own bouquet for this month’s MGB.
I would love to see what flowers are growing in your garden.
Monthly Garden Bouquet – August
Vegetable GardeningHello Everyone…..I hope you are all enjoying your summer so far. My August has been quite busy and filled with kids back in school, preparing to teach a vegetable gardening class, planning my fall vegetable garden, a baby shower (more about that later), knitting class, baking and writing for a magazine.
But, I did venture out into the garden to create my Monthly Garden Bouquet and this is what I came up with….
My ‘Rio Bravo’ Sage is in full bloom and I love the light fragrance of the lavender flowers. I decided to add a cluster of Gold Lantana flowers since they have been blooming in my entryway for the past 6 months. I love their bright colors.
I must admit that I sometimes overlook my Lantana. They do so well and are almost always blooming. They require no fertilizer or special attention except for twice annual pruning. I think gardeners tend to pay more attention to the plants that take more care, and ignore those that work hard and look beautiful without much effort, don’t you?
Before I went out into the garden to create my bouquet, I searched for a suitable vase or container to place it in. I have used the same containers more then once for previous MGB posts and was determined to find another one. It was then I remembered a special vase that I bought on a visit to Ireland over 9 years ago.
My vase pictures a farm cat and her kitten. It is from the ‘Landscape’ collection from Nicholas Mosse Irish Pottery. I have other pieces of the ‘Landscape’ collection and they are beautiful, painted with farm animals, flowers, and much more.
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If you would like to participate in August’s Monthly Garden Bouquet (and I hope you do), here are the guidelines.
1. MGB begins on the 21st of each month and runs until the end of each month. Bouquets can be submitted during this time (or even later 🙂
2. Create your own garden bouquet as fancy or simple as you like.
3. I would appreciate it if you would provide a link back to my post inside of your MGB post, but it is not required 🙂
4. Add your link to Mr. Linky below and that’s it!
I cannot wait to see what bouquets you create from your August gardens.
Have a great week!
Gracie’s Story….an Ongoing Chapter
AZ Plant LadyIt is hard to believe that it has now been 7 years since Gracie walked into our lives. I cannot imagine life without her.
Now for the most part, this is a blog about my adventures living and gardening in the desert southwest, but I occasionally share about my family. I have been sharing Gracie’s story and have been so appreciative of your wonderful responses. You can read the previous entries by following this link.
Okay, back to the story where we left it. We were waiting patiently (impatiently) to get through immigration at the airport. I kept thinking of all the family that had gathered just outside waiting to meet Gracie for the first time. I was also dying to see my two oldest daughters….I had missed them terribly. Finally, the immigration officer stamped Gracie’s paperwork and she was now officially an American citizen. And so, we started to make our way out to the arrivals corridor to meet our family.
*The following photos are not the best quality, but I think they capture the emotions we experienced that special day….
My adventures living
My family, who resided in the Los Angeles area were all there along with my in-laws who had made the trip to LA from Phoenix. It was so wonderful to see everyone so excited to meet Gracie.
My adventures living
I couldn’t wait to hug my daughters and Gracie was definitely interested in her new sisters.
My adventures living
It was so great to see my mom (now Pastor Farmer of Double S Farms) and introduce her to Gracie.
She brought red, white & blue balloons to welcome Gracie to the United States.
We spent some time with family at my parent’s house, but we were soon ready to go to a hotel and sleep. Gracie spent some time at the hotel getting acquainted with her new sisters.
The next day we returned to my parent’s home to enjoy a baby shower for Gracie. I come from a close knit extended family and so family from all over Southern California and Arizona made the drive to the party. Great aunts & uncles, 1st & 2nd cousins, grandparents, her great-grandmother…it was a full house 🙂 Everyone was so eager to welcome Gracie into the family.
I could hardly wait for people to arrive to the shower and meet Gracie…
Gracie found the ribbon and Cheerios much more interesting then the gifts she received.
Picking up Cheerios continued to be challenging for her.
It was such a wonderful day and Gracie was embraced by the entire family. Later, she took a walk outside with her dad in her new dress and hat.
My adventures living
After a few days in Los Angeles, we loaded up our minivan and left for home. Once we returned home, and got Gracie settled in, we took her to the pediatrician who pronounced her healthy.
Gracie made herself at home…..
Watching ‘Barney’ for the first time….
Learning how to feed herself.
Soon we met with her orthopedist who would correct her clubfoot.
Normally, clubfeet are corrected right after birth, but since Gracie was almost 2 years old, her case was unusual. For the next 10 weeks, Gracie had a new cast put on her foot/leg. Each time the doctor would adjust the cast slightly in order to straighten her foot.
Gracie adjusted to her cast very well and did not let it slow her down. Meanwhile, she was experiencing the joys of belonging to a family.
Supergirl
Soon, it was time for the 10th cast to come off and although her foot was now straight, she needed surgery on her achilles tendon to fully repair her club foot. Unfortunately, her surgery was scheduled on her birthday. So, we had a fun-filled birthday celebration a few days ahead of time.
My adventures living
You can tell her hair is starting to grow out a little.
Her first birthday present….ever.
All to soon, came her surgery day….
My adventures living
The surgery went very well and we were so thankful. The nurse came into the surgery waiting room to get us and kept looking for an Asian couple. She finally called out our names and we could see that she was a little surprised to see that we weren’t Asian at all 😉
Even though the surgery was a success, Gracie still had to wear a cast for another month.
Now it was time to work on celebrating her first Christmas. It had been years since I had taken my older daughters to Santa, but we had to start up our Santa tradition with Gracie. Now, Gracie’s hair was starting to grow longer, but despite how often I dressed her in pink, some people would compliment me on my cute son.
I did my best to ignore this, thinking that eventually she would have enough hair that people wouldn’t mistake her for a boy. Well, this Santa photo was the breaking point for me….
Once the photo had been taken, Santa’s elf handed me the photo and said, “Here is the photo of your son.” That was it….I was tired of people mistaking her for a boy so we walked to the earring store a few feet away and got her ears pierced.
As well as Gracie was fitting into our family, there were still signs of her earlier life spent in an orphanage. She did have some delayed development, which is not unusual in children raised in orphanages in China and we had been prepared for that. She was catching up and had periods of accelerated learning as she was catching up to where she should be for her age.
One thing that she did and still does each night, is rock herself side to side in bed as she falls asleep. She would do this in the orphanage to comfort herself because there was probably a number of times that there was not an available person to rock her or provide comfort. As a result, she would have a large tangled mass of hair when she would wake up, so we started putting her hair in ponytails before bed, which solved the problem.
First Easter and tangled hair.
Gracie’s foot was doing very well, but for the months that followed, she had to wear special shoes fastened onto a bar at night. We called them “Night, Night Shoes”. At first, she hated them….I would have too.
The shoes helped to keep her repaired clubfoot pointed outwards. Gracie adapted pretty quickly and later did not complain when we had to put them on her.
During the day, she would have to wear a plastic brace on her lower leg.
Helping her dad in the garden. You can see the brace on her right leg.
Thankfully, she no longer has to wear a brace or special shoes any longer.
When Gracie was three years old, another major change occurred in our family…..
We went back to China in order to adopt a little boy, Kai. You can read about Kai’s story here if you like. Gracie accepted her brother right away and since they were only 6 months apart, they played together all the time.
While we were in China during this time, we arranged a visit to Gracie’s orphanage. We wanted to see where she had spent almost two years of her life. The trip took 2 1/2 hours by car and when we arrived, we were warmly greeted by the orphanage director and staff.
Here we are posing with some of the nannies, the director and the co-director.
One of the nannies is holding our new son, Kai.
At the orphanage, we were treated as honored guests and given a tour. They were thrilled to see Gracie and see how her club foot had been repaired. Gracie was happy to be there and let the orphanage director carry her all over…something she did not normally let strangers do. So, maybe she still had some faint memories of where she came from. One of the nannies picked up our newly adopted son, Kai and carried him around as well.
As nice as all the staff was, I cannot say the same of the orphanage itself. The orphanage was a dark, rather dismal place. We were not allowed to take pictures inside, but I do remember seeing the room she grew up in with its dark walls, lack of toys, and rows of cribs filled with babies. Each crib contained two babies…probably so that they could warm each other during the cold winter. Although it was obvious that the nannies cared for the kids, It was also painfully obvious that there were not near enough nannies to take care of all the emotional needs of the kids. It broke my heart to think of Gracie growing up in this place for the first 20 months of her life.
The director wanted to take us out to lunch and asked us if we preferred Chinese food or KFC. I am not an adventurous eater and I was not sure what kind of food an authentic Chinese restaurant in a rural area would offer, so we played it safe and went to KFC.
Gracie with her favorite nanny.
Gracie’s favorite nanny was not at the orphanage that day since it was her day off. But, she did meet us at KFC and promptly took over taking care of Gracie. It was so sweet to see….she took her on the little playground at the restaurant and helped her with her food. She said a tearful goodbye to Gracie when we left.
That day was so special to all of us because we were able to meet the people who raised Gracie when she was a baby. But, I was so thankful that she was ours now.
Gracie when she was 4 years old.
Many people tell us how lucky Gracie is because we adopted her and that we have made such a difference in her life. But, I don’t see it that way. Gracie has blessed us immeasurably and enriched our lives. I am sometimes surprised when I see us together in a mirror because we look so different from each other. The reason I feel surprise is that Gracie is my daughter and I am as much her mother as I am to my two biological daughters who do look like me. There is no difference in the love I feel for her in my heart.
I can’t imagine life without her….
A Mellow Yellow August Garden Blogger’s Bloom Day….
Flowering AnnualsSummertime temperatures bring a riot of color to my desert garden and my plants are growing larger and larger. The combination of warm (okay, hot) temperatures and summer rains means that my garden is going crazy with growth and blooms.
As I walked around the garden taking pictures, I came away with photos of a large number of yellow flowering plants, some recent transplants, and a couple of plants who normally do not flower this time of year (I must have neglected to tell them when they are normally supposed to flower 😉
Arizona Yellow Bells (Tecoma stans)This shrub has now reached a height of 9 ft. I will prune it back by about 1/3 in early September.
A few flowers are still blooming on my Globe Mallow (Sphaeralcea ambigua) even though it is not their typical bloom season.
I just love the sunny faces of my Desert Marigold (Baileya multiradiata), which are a perennial that is sometimes treated as an annual.
I haven’t shown this plant before, but I do love my Eremophila x Summertime Blue.
They flower off an on throughout the year and I like their bell-shaped flowers.
I transplanted this shrub back in March in order to make room for my vegetable garden. Thankfully, they survived and now beginning to thrive again.
This pretty little perennial is underused in the landscape in my opinion.
I love how the spent blooms of my Paperflower (Psilostrophe cooperi) have a ‘papery’ texture, hence the origin of the common name.
I must admit that this picture of a cluster of Orange Jubilee flowers (Tecoma x Orange Jubilee) is not from my garden, but from the garden of my mother and sister.
However, in my defense….I did design their garden and I do have the same type of plant in my garden, but my flowers do not look as nice as theirs do 😉
I love the tiny clusters of flowers of my Goodding’s Verbena (Glandularia gooddingii).
This one sits in the shade provided by my Green Desert Spoon.
An all yellow variety of Red Bird-of-Paradise (Caesalpinia pulcherrima ‘Phoenix Bird’) proudly shows off it’s flowers in my front garden.
These flowers are not normally found in August, but someone neglected to tell my Desert Museum Palo Verde tree that it can stop flowering now.
All over the Arizona desert, different types of Sages are blooming in response to the summer heat and humidity from our monsoon season. My Rio Bravo Sage are no exception 🙂
The flowers of my Rio Bravo Sage (Leucophyllum langmaniae ‘Rio Bravo’) have a light fragrance which just makes this flowering shrub even better.
What is blooming in your garden this month?
To see more blooming gardens, please visit May Dreams Gardens who hosts Garden Blogger’s Bloom Day each month.
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I wanted to thank you all again for your wonderful comments in regards to Gracie’s story. I promise I will post the third and last installment in a few days 🙂
WE GOT HER!!!
AZ Plant LadyThat was the subject line in the email that we sent to family and friends after we received our daughter, Gracie. I wrote about our adoption journey up the point of seeing Gracie for the first time in person and you can read Part One if you like.
Well, I believe I left the story at the point of the elevator opening and seeing the orphanage officials walking out with Gracie in their arms. Although I recognized her instantly, there was something different in her appearance….she had no hair. Well to be honest, she had very little hair…..it was obvious that her head had recently been shaved. It really didn’t matter, I was just so happy to see her finally in person.
The nanny from the orphanage walked over and handed Gracie to me….
Gracie was wearing the outfit that we had sent her a month ago. She was obviously not sure what was going on. She had spent over 3 hours in a car in order to get to the hotel we were staying at and it very well may have been the first time she had ever been in a car.
We each spent a little time checking each other out. Gracie had never seen anyone who wasn’t Asian before. She did not try to get away from me and she did not cry. She was just taking it all in.
Her dad and I were just so thrilled to finally have her in our arms. But, Gracie probably thought I was the strangest person she had ever seen….blond hair, blue eyes, white skin and a big nose (more about that later in the story).
We spent some time there with the orphanage director and her nanny asking questions through a translator. It was obvious that they were happy she was being adopted. Her nanny was eager to show us how Gracie could walk a couple of steps, which she did, but she fell down after taking 3 steps….her club foot made it difficult for her to walk normally.
I was eager to take Gracie back with us to our hotel room and as we said our goodbyes to the orphanage officials, her nanny shed a few tears. Back in our room, I took off her clothes which were much too hot for the month of August. She was in good condition and only had a little heat rash behind her neck. Up until this point, I had been the one to hold her, but now it was her new dad’s turn.
As happy as we were, I could only imagine the turmoil of feelings that Gracie must have been experiencing. She had just been dropped off by the only caretakers she had ever known and left in the care of complete strangers who looked so different from anyone she had ever seen.
As I held her that first night and fed her a bottle, Gracie reached up and grabbed my nose and held onto it for a few minutes. I was surprised at first…I had never thought of my nose as abnormally big. But then when I thought about it, she had probably never seen a nose that sticks out – most Asian noses are somewhat flat. Soon after she let go of my nose she went right to sleep.
After waiting 15 months of waiting, we just wanted to keep holding her that night, but we finally put her in the crib. Guess what? She slept for 11 hours 🙂
We had to spend a few days in Hangzhou, which is the provincial capital, in order to finalize the adoption in China and get her Chinese passport so that she could travel to the US.
The next morning, Gracie woke up a little disoriented, but was otherwise happy to get her bottle of rice cereal. We were rather shocked to discover that at 20 months of age, she had only eaten milk and rice cereal.
We gave her a bath and I finally got to put on one of the dresses that I had bought for her. We spent the morning filling out paperwork and finalizing her adoption. Then a trip to get her passport photo as well as our first family photo was the extent of what we did this day. It was important to spend a lot of one on one time with her to help with the bonding process. At this stage, she was more likely to want to be with an Asian person because they looked more familiar and so our guide took care to stay in the background for all of us in the group. She spent much of the day working on our paperwork.
The next morning, something special happened. The kids were on the floor playing while us mothers were talking as a group nearby. Gracie’s almost bald head was popular with the other newly adopted kids in our group because they liked rubbing her head.
Well, Gracie stood up on her own and walked a few steps towards me and then crawled the rest of the way over and stretched out her arms to me so that I could hold her. It was the first sign that she was beginning to bond with me…it made me want to cry with happiness.
Our remaining days in Hangzhou were spent applying for an expedited passport and then sight-seeing while waiting for the passport to be ready.
We were very fortunate to be staying in Hangzhou as the area is so beautiful. We toured West Lake.
Yes, that is a golden water buffalo in the lake.
Guess what we found next to the lake….
Gracie sleeping in my arms at Starbucks.
Starbucks!
We were having a wonderful time touring around West Lake, but Gracie evidently wasn’t too interested as she promptly fell asleep…
Our adoption agency organized a tour of a local orphanage (not Gracie’s) that they ran. I had been looking forward to visiting an orphanage since Gracie’s was too far away for us to visit. This orphanage was the role model of what China wanted other orphanages to follow and so they often sent employees there to be trained. My husband stayed back at the hotel with Gracie because we were afraid that she would be alarmed at finding herself in another orphanage.
Fun with dad playing on the computer in our hotel room.
This was a very special visit and I saw many precious children. You can click on the photos below to enlarge if you like.
This little albino boy was adopted 2 years later.
The babies in cribs were lying on bamboo mats to help keep them cool.
Precious little girl.
Have you ever seen so much hair?
The orphanage doctor showing our guide a little girl who was failing to thrive.
Playroom (we had to wear booties over our shoes to keep the floor clean.
**Unbeknown to me, my future son is in the yellow/green/red jumper.
I met a little friend…Chen Bo who wanted me to stop taking pictures so that he could crawl into my lap.
Saying goodbye….
I had a wonderful time visiting the orphanage and my heart ached for all of the children who had no parents. But, I couldn’t wait to get back to the hotel and be with Gracie again.
Gracie quickly began to bond with us and became more extroverted. She began walking more and was able to stay on her feet longer. She loved it when her dad would ‘chase’ her down the hotel hallway. *You can see that she walked on the ankle of her right foot. It was amazing to me that she could walk at all.
We were enjoying our time in China very much. We did seem to attract attention wherever we went because foreign tourists did not travel to this area often, so we encountered stares almost everywhere we went. The Chinese people were not being rude….it is not considered rude to stare in China. Also, the culture is more of a inter-dependent culture, where our western culture focuses more on individualism. As a result, it was normal for Chinese women to come up and make sure that our children were dressed appropriately for the weather (they are affectionately known as the ‘clothing police’ in the adoptive community).
I had a great time shopping.
I tried to ignore the stares though.
The Chinese people we met were extremely curious about why we had Chinese children with us. The fact that Europeans and Americans adopt from China was not well know inside of China. They were courteous and wished us well when we explained that we were adopting Gracie. Because of their inter-dependent culture, sometimes strangers would come up to Gracie and hold her club foot in their hands in order to figure out what was wrong with it. Now, in America, I would have politely told them not to touch my daughter. But, it is different in China where they were genuinely concerned and it was not considered rude to take matters into their own hands to find out what was wrong with her.
One older woman scolded me when we were walking with a sleeping Gracie in her stroller. You see, Gracie’s head had rolled forward and the stroller did not adjust back, so there was nothing that I could do. Well, while this well-intentioned woman was scolding me, I just picked up Gracie’s head and put it back up and then it promptly rolled forward again and I just shrugged my shoulders and walked on 😉
I must admit at this point, that I am not an adventurous eater. But, I did find many foods that I enjoyed in China. Not this one though….my husband is the adventurous eater in our family and enjoyed eating a little bit of everything.
Our group ate a wonderful dinner at restaurant and we were so excited to have Gracie try some of the different food (she had been limited to rice cereal up to this point). She seemed to love the peas and kept eating them. We were so happy to see her eating other foods. Later that night as my husband was leaning over to put her into the crib, a pea dropped out of her mouth. Further exploration found over 17 peas stuck inside of her cheeks.
Because Gracie had spent her life in an orphanage to this point, she was delayed in many areas which we had expected. One of the problems we discovered was that she did not know how to swallow solid foods.
Our travel group ready to leave from the Hangzhou airport.
Our time in Hangzhou was coming to a close and the next part of our trip was upcoming. I was a little nervous about how Gracie would do on an airplane, but she did very well. We said goodbye to our guide and flew with the rest of our group to Guangzhou (formerly known as Canton) in Southern China.
Some of you may remember me mentioning that I am a wimp about hot weather when it is coupled with high humidity. Well, when we landed in Guangzhou, it was even more hot and humid then where we had come from. But, it was so beautiful! * It smelled like the ride “Pirates of the Caribbean” at Disneyland.
We stayed on a small island in Guangzhou known as Shamian Island. Filled with European Colonial architecture and beautiful, formal gardens, I couldn’t wait to explore more.
The United States Consulate was located on the island at the time and this portion of the trip was focused on completing our immigration paperwork and securing a visa for Gracie so that we could travel to the States.
Our hotel was a 5-star hotel and the primary place that adoptive parents stayed while waiting for their child’s visa. It was beautiful inside….
I remember walking into our hotel room and telling my husband that we had better enjoy this stay because we were highly unlikely to ever stay in another place as nice. *The foreign exchange rate at the time made it very affordable to stay there ($1 = 8 yuan).
In our new hotel, Gracie played for hours with the plastic spoon and cover of my airplane lunch – she was absolutely fascinated. We were coming to see what her delays where. She would spend time in front of the mirror and would tap it with her fingers. It was obvious that she had never seen herself in a mirror before. She also liked to eat Cheerios, but she could not pick them up with her thumb and forefinger. **A few years later a visit to her orphanage showed us how deprived she had been of sensory input. I will write more about that at a later time.
We enjoyed our time on Shamian Island with walks, shopping and hanging out with the wonderful people in our group.
One afternoon when we returned to our room in the hotel, we saw that Gracie had received a surprise gift….
Yes, that is a Barbie doll. Notice she has a Chinese baby she is adopting. All adoptive families receive a complimentary “Going Home Barbie” and each year there is a new version.
Our hotel had new hallways for Gracie to explore with her dad.
And to be chased again….
All to soon, our time in China was coming to an end. Our group gathered in the lobby to take a picture of all of our adopted girls.
Gracie is on the left.
Two of the girls had been adopted a few years before.
It is amazing how strongly you bond with other families when you share an experience like this. Most of us are still in contact with each other 7 years later.
I was so excited to be going home to my other daughters and couldn’t wait to introduce the entire family to Gracie. The flight was a long one and Gracie did well for the most part. We landed in Los Angeles and went through immigration in the airport. Once we handed them her visa – she was an American citizen.
Just outside of immigration was a bunch of people just waiting to see Gracie for the first time and welcome her to our family.
All of a sudden this little girl who had been abandoned as a baby, not only had a mom and dad, but two sets of grandparents, aunts and uncles waiting outside the gates to welcome her to the family.
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If you would like to read more of what happened after we adopted Gracie, you can read Part 3 if you like. This post is already so long and although many of you mentioned that you didn’t mind the length of my previous post, you probably would like a little break from reading 🙂
I would like to thank you all for your kind comments. Gracie has enjoyed having me read your comments to her. She has been such a miracle in our lives and I enjoy sharing her story whenever I can.